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It is better to teach early than late, and it is a better period before the age of 5. Childhood is a critical stage in the development of children's personality, temperament and gender consciousness. Children have a clear understanding of gender and should pay special attention to training. Children are innocent, so it is much better to let them know some gender knowledge earlier than to let them learn shyness and adult taboos and figure it out for themselves.

2. Inevitable

In the face of children's doubts about gender, parents must correctly guide, patiently explain, don't avoid, don't deceive children. Children may ask these questions: Where was I born? Why does dad pee standing and mom pee sitting? Why can mom and dad sleep together, but I have to sleep in a room alone? Wait a minute. This is an inevitable problem in the process of children's growth. As parents, don't avoid, don't avoid, don't use "you will understand when you grow up" to fool your children, but to arouse their curiosity.

3. Have the concept of equality.

Parents can't let their children have gender discrimination from an early age, especially discrimination against girls. A few parents prefer sons to daughters, which makes their children feel inferior from an early age. There is also a kind of doting on boys, which is also an unequal thought. The latest research shows that boys from one-child families are generally favored by mothers, most likely gay and sissy. Preference for boys and superior family conditions are likely to lead to the phenomenon that children have vague gender cognition during this period.

4. Parents' voices

This is also worrying and incredible! This is a good time to educate the difference between men and women, and proper guidance is enough. Her daughter said that it is estimated that the son preference instilled in her a good relationship with boys. When my daughter was a child, she saw her father standing and said she would stand on the toilet. Later, I told her that you are a girl, and the girl is sitting on the toilet. She knows! Later, when I went to kindergarten, I came home and said that boys urinated standing like my dad, and we girls all urinated sitting, which is very common.

How old is the best time to expand information;

Parents in the correct health education for their children, sex education experts believe that we should pay attention to the following aspects:

1, appropriate age

Theoretically, the gender differences between men and women, especially the primary sexual characteristics, can be solved before children's puberty. As far as the current social and cultural situation is concerned, it is best to answer the difference of primary sexual characteristics between men and women before the age of 5. Sex education should be more advanced, but it is inseparable from children's understanding ability.

2. Appropriate methods

Children can speak with their parents' bodies before the age of 5, but after the age of 5, it is more appropriate to use books, audio-visual materials and other methods.

3. Appropriate content

Children's sex education, the content of each age group should be focused. Simple problems such as gender knowledge should be solved before the age of 5. Before puberty, sexual physiology education should be carried out; When teenagers develop, it is necessary to carry out sexual psychology and sexual morality education.

In short, sex education for children should adhere to natural and appropriate principles, and should not be done deliberately, nor should we look at children's problems from an adult's perspective.

References:

Baidu encyclopedia-children's sex education