Love goes both ways. Whether or not to have sex depends mainly on the thoughts and attitudes of both parties in love. If both parties have the will and psychological preparation, they must take correct contraceptive and disease prevention measures in advance to avoid taking remedial measures afterwards. For female college students, if they are not psychologically prepared, they should stand firm and take certain measures to protect themselves.

First of all, you should understand that it is normal for a boyfriend to ask for sex. Men often have an urgent need to release sexual tension through sex, so you should understand him and tell him that although you refused his sexual request, you still love him, but you are not ready to accept sex.

Secondly, if you love each other, you should respect each other. You can politely refuse his request and explain to him that you don't want to have children before marriage and don't want to hurt your health because of unexpected pregnancy. State your attitude simply and don't pester him. If he loves you, he will respect your choice. Say "no" directly, clearly and firmly, and don't give the other person the misunderstanding of "duplicity" and "refusal to welcome".

Men are usually sensitive to visual and active tactile stimuli. As long as the amount and intensity of these two stimuli are reduced, sexual impulse can be reduced or avoided. Therefore, girls should avoid unwanted sexual relations when they are in love, try not to wear revealing clothes, try not to date in too hidden places, and it is best to fall in love with their boyfriends in public. Finally, some people say that love is the whole answer to the problem of human existence, which makes people transcend instinct, ego and nature. Love is a very difficult thing to learn, because love is an ability and an art. Only with the ability to love can we truly love and be loved, and we can experience sweetness and happiness in love.

Love is integrated into all aspects of life, and the ability to learn and cultivate love is a task that runs through everyone's life and also benefits people for life. Although the physical development of contemporary college students is basically mature, their psychological development is not yet fully mature, their outlook on life and values are not stable enough, their social experience is relatively lacking, and they have no independent economic foundation.

College students urgently need love, but they may not know it or grasp it. In college students' speeches, there is probably nothing more talked about and less understood than love. If college students want to establish a correct view of love, they will feel sweet in love only if they find their own feelings.