I can't help but feel sad after hearing about your depression. You are so cheerful and generous, how can you wander around the university campus alone and be sad? When I think of those days when we were together, the trace of bicycle speeding on the way home, the greedy fighting figure left in front of the snack bar, the footprints left in the snow, the smell of youth and happiness left in the wind, everything is so clear. How can your dream campus be so depressing?
You said that everyone around you has changed, and everyone who should go has left.
Such a sad tone, such a lonely look. Have you forgotten? Those who should go have left, and those who should stay have also stayed. Day by day, people grow up day by day. You can't always be a stubborn child, refusing to grow up by yourself and unwilling to let others grow up. Remember that Peter Pan who will never grow up? Didn't all the children who were so happy with him finally leave one by one? In our life journey, we will meet all kinds of people, but everyone has their own way to go. Occasionally crossing the road, we spent some wonderful days together, but wandering at the fork in the road didn't change anything. We must go our own way. Just like the sentence in Xu Zhimo's "Accidental": The first night when you and I met at sea. You have yours, I have mine, and there is a direction. You may remember it, but you'd better forget the light from that intersection. Therefore, leaving is such a natural thing. Don't forget, you can keep that beautiful memory in your heart, and those beautiful memories will become your strength to move forward. Don't be sad because they leave, leaving doesn't mean the end. In your life, you will continue to inject new strength and new opportunities. Isn't life becoming more colorful in such constant changes? Those friends left behind are your most precious wealth. They have the same path and the same goal. Can work together for a lifetime.
If one day, you think they have changed, don't be sad, okay? Just like going to Qiu Lai in spring, people always change. From the naivety of the first world to the ignorance of teenagers, to the fledgling of teenagers, to the maturity of middle age, to the wisdom of old age, our life has to undergo many changes. At different times, what we want is different. Entering the university, each of us wants to face a new life with a new look. So, people around you may have changed. Don't feel depressed or dissatisfied with this. Because, in fact, you are constantly changing and constantly choosing the life you want. Besides, change is not all bad. Try to accept the changes, and maybe you will find the new ones easier to get along with.
So, before you get depressed, accept the reality, okay? Don't be intimidated by yourself before trying.
You said you really wanted to go back to the past, to the carefree past.
Think carefully, once upon a time, was it really as carefree and happy as you think now? No matter when, we all have our own troubles. Those troubles in the past may be insignificant to us now. But for us at that time, it was so painful and annoying. As before, now you may encounter many troubles, difficult things, and feel like the end of the world. When you are immersed in distress, have you ever thought that these are actually so insignificant to us in the future? We are all stepping out of our lives step by step and writing out our memories one by one early. Never feel bad today, in fact, it is as beautiful as every day you have passed before. When you encounter difficulties, face them bravely. Use your courage to write good memories for tomorrow. If today is for memories, what about tomorrow? Without the memory of today, how can you remember tomorrow? It may not be so easy to face, but don't be afraid. Remember Su Shi's sentence? "Looking back at the bleak land, rain or shine." The current ups and downs may scare you, but don't be afraid, because after reading it, you will find that there is really nothing to be afraid of.
So, before you run away, face the reality, okay? Believe in yourself for tomorrow's memories, yes.
There's something you didn't say, but I guessed. Love is indeed an indispensable condiment in college life. You must not miss such romance, but maybe you have found it is not so beautiful.
We believe that love should be sacred, pure, happy and joyful. But maybe it disappoints you and depresses you. Very sad, isn't it? I think so too, but have you ever wondered why? Because you didn't find true love? No, you are wrong.
You don't know that pure love is childish, and true love is based on family and friendship. Learn to love your family and friends so that you can have true love.
Love in college is always romantic and wasteful. Is it possible to spend money within reach and squander the youth you are having, thinking that you can get a true love?
Don't! No way!
Want love? Then love your family. No one in the world loves you more than your family. Bing Xin said: "In this world, there is such a person who loves you more than herself, and that is your mother!" " Not only mother, but also father. Two people who love you so much, if you don't cherish and love, why do you have love? Why do you want to prove that you will love others? Love your family and do your duty for the family. In this way, you can understand the love in the family.
Want love? Then love your friends. Friends are our closest people. With friends, we learn to grow, care for others, be patient and cherish. A man without friends is like a bird without wings. He can never spread his wings and soar in the air. Love your friend. Only learn to love your friends, when love comes, you won't let it slip away. Protect your love with social care, love and cherish, so that it will not leave in a hurry without preparation.
So, before looking for love, love your family and friends first, ok? Don't get hurt in blind search.
Still depressed? I hope not.
College life is not for depression. Just as life seems long, it is actually short. In college life, we don't have as much time as it seems. In the boring consumption day by day, time has long waited for no one. Cheer up, after all, we are no longer children, and we should have our own plans for the future and life.
Let me tell you a story.
There is a girl studying acting. In college, she also wasted time and youth. One day, her tutor found her and asked her, what is your ideal? The girl blurted out without thinking, a successful actress. So when are you going to realize your dream? The girl thought about it, about twenty-seven or eight years old. Well, the tutor said, let me help you figure out how long you have. At the age of 27, you are successful, so at the age of 26, you should be famous. At the age of 25, you should have given several wonderful performances. Before that, you have to experience several failures and setbacks, which will take about a year. In that case, at the age of 23, you should go out and look for opportunities. By the time you are 22, you should have mastered all the skills you need. 2 1 year-old, you should practice hard to make yourself stronger. Is it? Girls keep their heads down, yes. So, how old are you now? The girl whispered, 2 1 year old.
The tutor left without saying anything, but from then on, the girl began to practice hard. At the age of 27, she realized her dream.
I don't covet her success, but I envy her having such a good tutor to guide her life. What about you? Friend, what is your ideal? We all think that the future is far away and our dreams will come true tomorrow. But often we forget that without today's efforts, how can there be tomorrow's glory! Don't dream of a better tomorrow for granted. If there is no practical action, then dreams can only be dreams forever.
Therefore, instead of being depressed, it is better to spend depressed time calculating your life and how far you are from your dreams. Life is so short, don't let your life wither before it blooms in depression.
Are you still depressed after listening to me so much?
Certainly not! I think you know all these things, but you forgot them without being reminded for too long. Right?
If you remember them, then put away your frustration. Raise your head again and let the sweat of our youth spill on the beautiful university campus again. Let's stand up and create the same beautiful memories as before for the future, no, better than before.
A great scholar is also a place to learn culture. So talented people from all over the world can gather here and spend four shining years in their lives. When I first entered the university, I was in high spirits, always determined to win, but not firm, full of hesitation, and wanted to try my hand. By 2003, everything was familiar and I was troubled by love. At the end of the year, I suddenly realized that it was too late to get promoted. Alas, although four years have been wasted, this is the true nature of life. Everyone is angular and no different from the smoothness of social people. The beauty of a university lies in looking back on students' dreams. When people want to go back, they all say that they want to go back at this time.
Hang your name on your chest every day.
I can feel your great love.
You will always be my forest.
I am a small seed.
My thoughts germinate in your care.
Every time I look up at you,
Your shoulders are like a wooden house.
Including blue sky and white clouds
I once imagined that we could stand together forever.
All the beautiful mornings and nights
Wake up silently at your feet and go to sleep.
until today
I grow into a moving tree.
Relive the love you gave me.
I want to be like you.
In the storm of years
Stand in the corner of life at will
Form a green shadow
Four seasons songs on campus
Golden campus
We came noisily.
Young mind
Full of infinite expectations
The world in plain clothes
We let off steam.
Passionate feelings
The colorful life of radiation
Green campus
Those ignorant teenagers
Publicize the glory of life
Appreciate the infinity of knowledge
Hot campus
Those young faces
Full of knowledge
Looking forward to the new school year
Four seasons campus
Every year is more colorful.
at once
We have grown up.
therefore
With the joy of growing up
We left silently.