Especially in love. Many things can only be realized in society, and it is difficult to find a suitable person. If you can find your other half in college, you will be very happy. After all, love on campus is pure, so we don't have to consider so many realistic factors. In society, many people will consider whether to start this love under the premise of considering realistic factors.
Everyone will have their own small abacus.
Many parents are worried that their children's falling in love in college will affect their studies. Then, the hard work saved for a lifetime will be wasted, and some university teachers think that college love may fall into the sweet time of two people and ignore learning, leading to the decline of learning efficiency in the end. After entering the society, the gap with others will be great.
There are too many factors to consider when falling in love after leaving society, including the family background of both parties, where to settle down in the future, whether it is possible to get married together and so on. These problems will come one after another and continue to affect your love concept. The emotional starting point has been lowered. As long as all the conditions are suitable, it may become a love based on goodwill, lowering the threshold of many loves, rather than a social love just because of liking. It's actually quite common.
Everyone thinks that the two sides are suitable, they can take care of each other in life, and watching each other close their eyes, then it is possible for two people to quickly change from a relationship of love to a relationship of husband and wife.
After all, love in society is all about getting married, so everyone will take a long-term view and be closer to real life. After all, marriage is not just two people like to be together, but also the relationship between two families.