However, for many migrant workers who have left their homes to work all the year round and only come home during the Spring Festival, the Spring Festival also has an important significance, that is, to give their parents an explanation.

For parents, children's marriage is always concerned. During the Spring Festival, they very much hope that their children will bring their other half home, and children also want to take this opportunity to introduce their lovers to their parents. One is to be happy, and the other is to have time for each other.

However, due to the different habits of Chinese New Year in different places, there will also be some contradictions.

Reader Chen Meng (a pseudonym) had this experience. Speaking of this experience, Chen Meng is not without emotion. She always felt that her parents were too overbearing and didn't trust her. Only after this incident did she see her parents for who they really are.

Chen Meng was born in a wealthy family and was an only child. In the eyes of many people, she must be loved by thousands of people. Actually, she didn't. Instead of doting on her, her parents were very strict with her, saying it was for her own good.

She was obedient when she was young, but the older she got, the more she rebelled against her parents. She felt that her parents were selfish and didn't understand herself, so she chose a university far from home to pursue her dreams, in order to prove her ability.

Of course, she did prove her ability. She studied hard in college for four years and won a scholarship. When her parents found out, they naturally looked at her with new eyes. But their parents still hope that she can go home and listen to their arrangements for blind date. Chen Meng clashed with her parents again.

At this time, her boyfriend Jason Chung appeared. Jason Chung is seven years older than Chen Meng. For Chen Meng, who has just stepped out of society and entered the workplace, Jason Chung is already a senior. Besides, Jason Chung is beautiful, humorous and helpful. Chen Meng is naturally unprepared for Jason Chung.

After getting familiar with it, Xiao Zhong will occasionally inquire about Chen Meng's family situation. Chen Meng doesn't feel rich in her family, because she has never treated him well since she was a child. She regards each other as bosom brothers. Naturally, she has no reservations. By the way, tell each other your dissatisfaction with your parents.

Hearing this, Jason Chung sympathized with Chen Meng and said, "When a woman looks for a boyfriend, she must find something she likes and is good to herself." She also said that she is single because she has never found anyone who agrees with her three views, and she doesn't want to delay other girls just because she can make do.

Hearing this, Chen Meng suddenly felt that Jason Chung was very consistent with himself in his view of love and had different feelings for Jason Chung. Since then, Jason Chung has been very considerate and concerned about Chen Meng. Deep down, Chen Meng took Jason Chung as her boyfriend, but suddenly one day, Jason Chung stopped looking for her, which made Chen Meng very nervous and even wondered if he had done something wrong. She couldn't help but contact Xiao Zhong.

Jason Chung hesitated for a long time before saying that he liked Chen Meng, but he was worried that Chen Meng despises himself.

Chen Meng was very moved. He confided his feelings for Jason Chung to Jason Chung, so they got together. After they got together, Jason Chung treated Chen Meng better, which made Chen Meng believe in Jason Chung more.

After two months together, Jason Chung began to urge Chen Meng to confess his love to his parents and introduce himself to them. Although Chen Meng recognized Jason Chung, he didn't know how to tell his parents, so he hesitated, but he finally told his parents at the urging of Jason Chung.

As expected, Chen Meng was asked by his parents what their parents did, and Chen Meng was very angry. In Chen Meng's view, feelings are two people's business. Parents still look down on people, but she still can't help asking Jason Chung. Hearing this, Jason Chung said that Chen Meng looked down on himself and said that he was not worthy of Chen Meng.

Under Chen Meng's questioning, the other party said that his family condition was not very good. His parents have worked hard all their lives, and the proudest thing is to support him to go to college.

Chen Meng felt that although the conditions at home were good, she was admitted to the university through her own efforts and found a job. She felt that she was not much different from Jason Chung, so she didn't take it to heart. ,

Jason Chung saw that Chen Meng didn't mind, so he suggested visiting Chen Meng's parents for the New Year. Chen Meng was worried, but Jason Chung swore that he would satisfy Chen Meng's parents, and Chen Meng agreed.

Jason Chung is very thoughtful. Before going, he inquired about what Chen Meng's parents liked, but when he heard that the other parents' favorite things were more expensive, he said that Chen Meng's parents used them at ordinary times, and they used to eat those things, which was not rare. You'd better buy something special. Chen Meng thought what the other party said was reasonable, and he agreed happily.

When I arrived in Chen, my parents kept smiling and let me in, even though they didn't like it. When asked what he likes about Chen Meng, Jason Chung boasted that Chen Meng is in the sky, but there is nothing underground. Chen Meng was very happy, but Chen Meng's mother just smiled faintly and said, "My own daughter, I still know it myself."

When asked when he planned to buy a house, Jason Chung said that he had been saving money. When he saw a suitable place to buy it, Chen Meng's father went on to say, "Yes, you have to think about it." . Young people still have to have a house to get married. "

At dinner, Chen Meng's parents prepared a sumptuous meal, all of which were local specialties. A table full, because they asked Chen Meng Jason Chung what he liked to eat, and in order to take care of Jason Chung, they also made a favorite dish for Jason Chung.

It should have been very pleasant and smooth, but after the meeting, Jason Chung talked to Chen Meng and said, "Your parents are so rich, how dare you give so few red envelopes?"

It turned out that before Jason Chung left, Chen Meng's parents gave Jason Chung a big red envelope. Jason Chung thought it was a lot of money, but when he opened it, it turned out to be a 100, a 50, a 10, a 5 and 3 Zhang Yiyuan bill. Jason Chung suddenly felt that the other side looked down on him, so he questioned Chen Meng.

Chen Meng didn't expect Xiao Zhong to think so. She said that this adds up to 168 yuan, which means "all the way". To them, red envelopes are a kind of "meaning" and represent good wishes to others.

Jason Chung still didn't believe it, saying that when the other parents bought a house for themselves, they were obviously embarrassed, telling themselves not to think about their own house, and that if they really cared about him, they should prepare things that he liked, instead of preparing a bunch of things that he didn't like, and then preparing some things that he liked. I thought it was obvious to tell him that their family even had better food than themselves.

Chen Meng is very helpless. She remembers what her father said to herself after Jason Chung left. His father said, "Being poor is not terrible, but being poor in heart. We don't have to be suitable, but at least the three views are the same. He should not only accept your shortcomings, but also accept your better side and appreciate it from the heart, instead of feeling that you are embarrassing him. Otherwise, such a man must not.

Chen Meng suddenly breathed a sigh of relief and felt that the other person was not the one he wanted to marry, so he said, "Believe it or not, my father asked when you were going to buy a house out of concern for his daughter. This is human nature; As for the rice cooked by my parents, it is our most famous specialty. Generally, it's only when you invite important guests to dinner that you get so annoyed. As for the red envelope, it is really meaningful.

As for you, it's because my parents look down on people, perhaps more because you feel inferior in your heart, and even you look down on yourself, so once you see that others are superior to you, you feel even more inferior. "

When the other party heard this, his face was red. Although Chen Meng can't bear to part with it, she still feels that she should confess with the other party. They are not suitable, so let's break up.

Unexpectedly, the other party became angry from embarrassment and said, "After all, you still look down on me!"

Chen Meng felt that he had made it very clear that he didn't want to pester each other any more, so he had to forget it.

Chen Meng said that she always felt that her parents cared too much about themselves, didn't understand themselves and didn't care about themselves. Only after this incident did she see her parents clearly.

Parents sometimes talk badly, but they always do it for our own good. They have experienced more things and met more people than we have. We don't have to listen to our parents' arrangement, but we can refer to their opinions.

This kind of thing will always be "the authorities are fascinated, and the onlookers are clear." Once a woman moves her heart, it is easy to lose herself. It's always right to listen to her parents.