How to face the "sexual problems" of college students
Eight causes of college students' psychological problems Recently, there have been frequent reports of college students' problems in various media, such as hurting black bears with sulfuric acid, baking puppies in microwave ovens, and killing grandma and dad because they were dismissed from school and felt unable to face their families ... People can't help but ask: What happened to college students? What are the causes of these events? In fact, there are many psychological problems among college students in China. Because there are some misunderstandings and deviations in people's understanding, people think that only obvious mental symptoms can be regarded as psychological problems or mental diseases, thus ignoring the early manifestations of some psychological abnormalities of college students. From the perspective of modern psychology, the current psychological situation of college students is worrying. The recent mental health survey shows that college students have become a psychologically vulnerable group. The positive rate of psychological behavior is about 65438 06%, and about 50% people are in unhealthy or sub-healthy state. As far as the current situation is concerned, the psychological problems of college students are mainly manifested in autism, depression, anxiety, paranoia, compulsion, schizophrenia and so on. Most of the reasons are that students' psychological problems have not been adjusted and solved in time. Then, what factors lead to the frequent and increasing number of college students' psychological problems? The author believes that there are mainly the following eight kinds of incentives. First, communication difficulties cause psychological stress. "Going in and out of the classroom with a ringtone, the dormitory is silent and the network appeals." In fact, this jingle reflects the communication status of quite a few college students. The communication difficulties of modern college students are mainly manifested in their inability to live independently, their ignorance of how to communicate with others, and their ignorance of communication skills and principles. Some students tend to be autistic and unwilling to associate with others; Some students communicate for the sake of communication and drift with the flow for the sake of principle. There are several reasons for college students' difficulties in communication: at present, most college students are only children, which has caused some negative effects on their improper education, such as willful selfishness and doing whatever they want; Due to the lack of collective environment, collective consciousness and cooperative spirit; The excessive arrangement of parents makes the only child lack the minimum independent life and the ability to communicate with others after going to college. Due to the difficulty in communication, on the one hand, college students have psychological problems such as autism and paranoia, on the other hand, because there is no object to talk about, problematic classmates will increase their psychological pressure and easily lead to mental illness. A survey of college students in Wenzhou shows that communication difficulties have become the primary factor inducing college students' psychological problems. Second, it is too dependent on the network. On the one hand, many college students seek psychological satisfaction in the network virtual world because of communication difficulties, on the other hand, they are deeply attracted by the wonderful network itself. Therefore, some college students rely more and more on the Internet, and some even indulge in it. They spend a lot of time surfing the Internet every day, addicted to the virtual world, isolated from real life, and unwilling to communicate with people face to face. Over time, it will affect the normal cognitive, emotional and psychological orientation of college students, and may also lead to split personality, which is not conducive to the shaping of healthy personality and outlook on life. Secondly, infatuation with the internet can also make people mentally dependent, behave abnormally in daily life and study, look trance-like, talk nonsense and behave strangely. Third, role transformation and adaptation obstacles Freshmen have a process of role transformation and adaptation. Every year, freshmen often have various psychological problems, which is called "psychological imbalance period of freshmen" in psychology. The reason for the psychological imbalance of freshmen is that the university in reality is not unified with the university in mind, resulting in a psychological gap; Secondly, freshmen are not adapted to the new environment, new interpersonal relationship and new teaching mode, resulting in confusion and psychological obstacles; In addition, freshmen, as ordinary members of the university, feel very different from the outstanding people in the previous middle school, which is also one of the reasons for psychological problems. Freshmen don't adapt to the new environment. If they are not adjusted in time, they will have psychological problems such as loss, inferiority, anxiety and depression, and some students will drop out of school because of long-term inadaptability. Therefore, we should pay special attention to the psychological adjustment of freshmen after entering school, and help them to get through the period of psychological imbalance and successfully change their roles. Fourth, the pressure of study and life is great. A considerable part of college students' learning pressure comes from their disliked majors, which makes them in conflict and pain for a long time; The course burden is too heavy, there are problems in learning methods, and long-term mental stress will also bring pressure; In addition, it is the test pressure brought by taking various certificate exams and postgraduate entrance examinations. Being in a state of high tension for a long time can easily lead to psychological diseases such as compulsion, anxiety and even schizophrenia among college students. Life pressure mainly lies in students' inability to live independently and communicate with others, as well as the psychological pressure brought by living in poverty. At present, about 20% of college students in China are poor students, of whom 5-7% are poor students. Some of them are too vain to bear the mental stress brought by poverty. They always feel that poverty is a shameful thing, dare not face poverty, get along with their classmates sensitively and feel inferior, and adopt the practice of avoiding autism. Some students even suffer from autism and depression and have to drop out of school. V. Emotional Confusion and Crisis At present, whether college students can correctly understand and deal with emotional problems has directly affected their mental health. The main influencing factors are: first, the sexual confusion of college students, boys are nervous because of misunderstanding of nocturnal emission, have a wrong understanding of masturbation and feel guilty; Girls are nervous before and after menstruation, which leads to the psychological contradiction between sexual consciousness and self-moral norms. Secondly, the emotional crisis caused by college students' love is an important factor to induce college students' psychological problems. Failure in love often leads to psychological variation of college students, and some people go to extremes and even lead to tragedy. Consequence VII caused by improper education of the only child. The adverse effects of family and external environment. employment pressure