I suggest you still have plans to get married. Two people really need money to get married, but it doesn't mean that money is enough. The most important thing is whether their feelings are mature enough to get married. You said to get married now, 654.38+10,000,200,000. I have seen 400,000 spent on a wedding. But if you want to be simple, 50,000 to 60,000 yuan is enough, but simplicity does not mean that you don't pay attention to it. You still have to prepare carefully. But what is your plan? What do you want to do about the wedding? What time? How much will it cost? Where is the wedding reception? Don't count on your boyfriend's parents. If your boyfriend is a person who dares to take responsibility, let him rely on himself. The wedding banquet will make money, save money and set it yourself! That's a man.
Now there is no plan between you, only complaining and complaining. For your boyfriend's father, you should learn to control him. If you continue to do nothing and drink again, you will not give him money in the future. Otherwise, you will still fight for his father after marriage. Young people sometimes rely on themselves instead of their parents. As a woman, you should also help your boyfriend plan his marriage instead of waiting for the man to come and go. Marriage is a matter for two people.