White lies and cruel reality, of course I accept the cruel reality. Goodwill is kindness. A lie is a lie. That is to say, lying in order not to hurt someone mentally and not to cause trouble to others.

In our daily life, in order not to cause trouble to others, we sometimes lie. For example, if you go to a family and others are eating, I will invite you to eat when I see you. And you didn't say hello to others in advance, and the food prepared by others is limited. If you sit down to eat, people will definitely not have enough to eat, and it is very troublesome to prepare to add vegetables. I had to lie and say that I had already eaten. People think you really ate it, so you don't have to bother. I'm hungry if others don't bother me. This is the cruel reality.

There is a story of a white lie that has always moved me.

There was a college student with a good family. Just when she was a sophomore, her family suddenly fell into poverty. Because her father failed in business, he owed a lot of debts and could no longer afford her to study. She faces the situation of dropping out of school. She didn't want to drop out of school, so she thought of applying for a grant. The aid fund donated by that enterprise requires the poor college students to pay back the money in time after graduation, so as to continue to support other poor students and pass on their love. There is an agreement to apply for funding, and there is a special statement at the back of the agreement that this agreement has no legal effect. In other words, repayment depends entirely on conscience, and non-repayment is subject to legal sanctions.

She successfully applied for a grant and finished her studies. After graduation, she found a job in a small factory in the suburbs. But the monthly salary is very low, a little unrestrained, and it is difficult to maintain even the basic life, let alone repay.

In order to repay the grant, her living expenses are kept within ten yuan a day. Eat two steamed buns in the morning, vegetarian dishes and rice at noon and evening. And the transportation fee, you can imagine how simple her life is. People see her being so frugal and ask her why. She said that I have a good figure and can lose weight. This is a white lie. Its essence is to return the grant as soon as possible.

Because of frugality, she takes out most of her meager salary every month and pays back the scholarship, becoming the recipient with the fastest repayment.

There are many people in life who appease others with white lies, but bear the cruel reality.