Some time ago, we were studying alone in the university. Because our classroom is around the library, when we go there every morning, we will see many students sitting outside the library, reading with their ponies. When we were in college, although some people went to the library to read books, there was no such thing.
Now college students study hard, because the assessment mechanism of universities has also changed. You think college life is harder than high school, which shows that you really study hard. This is a good state and there is no need to change it easily.
As a child of an ordinary family, I am really not qualified to tell the truth. Because you will enter the society soon after graduating from college, when you enter the society, you will find that the competitive pressure is really great. It is very difficult to find a job that you are satisfied with, unless you are excellent in the research field here.
The best way to become better is to study hard. Don't give up your efforts easily unless your family can solve your worries. If you don't want to work hard now, try to correct your attitude. It's like seeing a primary school student say on the Internet that his father told him that every page he reads now is every bill he will have in the future. Face up to the benefits that reading brings to children in ordinary families and understand what you are studying for.