First of all, what is the situation, then who is it for, and what is the reason here.

The way to talk first.

1. Especially tell your feelings, feelings, pains, thoughts and expectations honestly, but never criticize, accuse, complain or attack your intelligence.

2. Only by giving respect to each other can we communicate. If the other person doesn't respect you, you should also demand the respect of the other person appropriately, otherwise it will be difficult to communicate.

3. It often costs a lot of money to make up for what you shouldn't say. As the saying goes, "a promise of a thousand dollars, a promise of a thousand dollars", "illness comes from the mouth, disaster comes from the mouth", and may even cause irreparable lifelong regret! Therefore, communication cannot be irresponsible and outspoken; But if you don't talk at all, sometimes things will get worse.

Irrationality only has disputes, and there will be no results, let alone good results. So this kind of communication is useless.

Saying I'm sorry doesn't mean that I really did something terrible or wrong, but it is a softener, which finally gives things a "turning point" and even creates a "paradise"; In fact, sometimes you are really wrong, and it is a big mistake not to admit your mistake.

No matter what happens, you should "speak out", "express your opinion" and "communicate with him". This week, you will have unexpected gains. Innocence is not necessarily ignorance, not necessarily playing dumb, but how thoroughly people get along with each other. When we are older and less tempered, we gradually understand that some things can be understood for a lifetime, but some things take a generation to understand. Perhaps, the world is too big, too many people, too confused, too late to see, too late to think, too late to understand. In the colorful era of interpersonal packaging, we need more innocence and transparency.