From the moment you walk into the gate of Peking University, everyone has the aura of a bright person, and everyone has the same wonderful experience as you. What is the most terrible thing about Tsinghua Peking University? There are too many people who are better than themselves!
In the same advanced math class, people don't need to spend time thinking, and the answer comes with their mouths open, but studying advanced math for several hours every day is tortured to death and barely reaches the passing line.
People can find excellent internships, fund, VC and investment banking in their freshman year, but they are already sophomores and are still struggling in professional classes. People get high marks in TOEFL and IELTS, and they have never failed to study abroad. Massachusetts, Wharton and Berkeley can easily win, and everyone shares the results in a circle of friends, making him feel a huge gap and hitting again and again.
Carrying too much affection, when teachers and students in junior and senior high schools are full of expectations, he also wants to make efforts to change, but the result of his efforts can only be that he will not be eliminated and will never be able to break through and surpass. Failure is like a bottomless pit, which sucks up all his courage and self-confidence, and he doubts his ability more and more!
He said that in Tsinghua Peking University, only about 20% of people who earn hundreds of thousands of dollars a year are so lucky. Most of them will struggle with the basic standard of living in the future, and some may not even find jobs, and they are among these 80%.
The above is the story of this Peking University classmate.
After watching this video, I feel very moved. Yes, there are too many excellent people in this world. What kind of platform is Peking University? The top and best talents from all over the country gather together, and everyone is vying for it. Not to be outdone, no pressure!
It is rare for tens of millions of candidates in the national college entrance examination to be admitted to Tsinghua Peking University every year. Can be said to be one in a million. In fact, it is a great honor to enter such an institution, which is what many people dream of!
After taking the first step to success, you must rely on your own ability. Besides studying hard, we should strive for resources. You should step into a wider world, open your contacts, exercise your courage, and the most important thing is to cultivate a strong, supercilious spirit and improve your ability to withstand pressure!
Only by trying more can we find our own shortcomings and evaluate ourselves objectively. You will find that in this world, one mountain is higher than another, and there are many people who are better than themselves. Although they are better than themselves in all aspects, they work harder, plan more and succeed more than themselves!
This is the biggest gap! In fact, everyone grows up with a ceiling. In your study and work, you may meet people who are better than yourself anytime and anywhere. Take them as a kind of luck, and don't humble yourself easily. He has his flash, you have your bright spot, you are all excellent!
After all, some objective conditions are hard to change. The starting point of life is different, the foundation is different, and the requirements are of course different. You must accept it frankly and face it squarely. In such a competitive environment, how do you turn setbacks into motivation? How to do the best and realize the greatest possibility of life? I think as long as you really pay, you can have a clear conscience!
Therefore, being admitted to Tsinghua Peking University is not once and for all. We should summon up courage, face new difficulties, meet new challenges, accept the huge psychological gap from top students to poor students, find opportunities for respite and progress on the platform of experts, accept our own ordinary and ordinary, lower our expectations, and don't compare ourselves with the success of others.
People who have stood at the top of the pyramid of life are still crying for their failure, which makes us ordinary people feel sorry. ! Let go of yourself, you are just a mortal, don't demand perfection, and don't set too high a goal for yourself. Just try your best, be healthy and happy, and follow the fate!