What attracted me was not the tangled feelings between men and women, not the excellent men around women, but another sweet couple in the play: Xia Menghuan and Liao Zhenyu.
Xiao Liao met her roommate Huanhuan through the hostess Tang Xue, fell in love with this smiling person at first sight, and then launched a clumsy and sweet offensive.
While learning roller skating, Huanhuan was blocked by several gangsters to get contact information. Xiao Liao went to the hero to save the United States, but he fell over and chewed the mud.
Huanhuan said that her biggest dream is to protect the little penguin, and Xiao Liao's dream has become to accompany Huanhuan to realize her dream;
Huanhuan stayed up late to design the poster of the contest, and Xiao Liao stayed up late with her, thinking of ideas together and paying attention to her;
Huanhuan wants to run a homeless baby home, and Xiao Liao is willing to be a coolie. After being busy, he has solved a lot of troubles, and Huanhuan began to feel that Xiao Liao's image is tall;
When they watched the starry sky together, Huanhuan asked Xiao Liao what her dream was. Xiao Liao took out a check they bet and said that her dream was to be with Huanhuan. If she is different, she will become her own kind. Huanhuan is very moved, so they decide to have sex.
Two people in love are also very sweet. Xiao Liao doesn't allow other boys to add Huanhuan friends, so boys can add themselves. When Huanhuan thought she didn't believe in herself, Xiao Liao said that Huanhuan didn't realize how beautiful she was, which made her happy. It can be said that she has a strong desire to survive.
"What I need is not a follower!"
This seemingly loving and sweet couple, who always sprinkled dog food, later began to quarrel and disagreed. The cause of the quarrel was that Huanhuan suddenly woke up one day when she was immersed in love.
When Huanhuan and Xiao Liao were playing together, Huanhuan's wallet was stolen by a thief, so they went after it, but the thief slowly fell to the ground because of a heart attack. Xiao Liao, who arrived, rescued in time and saved the thief's life. In Huanhuan's eyes, Xiao Liao grows taller and taller. It seems that at this moment, Huanhuan suddenly realized that Xiao Liao also has another side he doesn't know, which belongs to his world and his dream.
Huanhuan likes all kinds of small animals. Her dream is to become a qualified veterinarian and treat animal diseases. Seeing that the stray cats and dogs on campus have no home, Huanhuan wants to build a home for the stray children and treat them. However, Xiao Liao devoted all her time and energy to Huanhuan, helped her build a home for homeless babies, and finished the treatment of small animals, and her academic performance was seriously at the bottom.
Huanhuan was very angry. I was deeply impressed by what she said: "All along, you have always been centered on me, and you have been busy with everything I want to do ... I think I have wasted too much of your time ... You have done everything for me, and you have given me all the time. After all, the homeless nursery has nothing to do with your dreams. What about your doctor's dream?
I don't want our relationship to be a stumbling block to your future ... I think Master Tang and Li Yubing have a good relationship now. They realize their dreams, work together and encourage each other. I think we can do it too! To put it bluntly, I need a boyfriend who can realize my dream together now, not a small follower who is useful to horses! "
Too much love can make people suffocate.
I seem to suddenly wake up. As bystanders, we are always immersed in the love plot of idol dramas, happy for their joy and sad for their sadness; Men and women cry, and we also cry; The man and the woman are very happy, so are we. We always see their efforts in love and look forward to the final return, which is a happy ending.
But few people in romantic dramas will stay awake and rationally say to their lover when their children are immersed in love: "You should think of yourself, not me!" "I'm afraid few people in reality will think that a happy ending is not only" everything will be fine if the ending is good ",but also" a dream come true ".
We saw that man gave up everything for each other and turned his whole life upside down. His whole world was full of each other. We cried with empathy and felt sorry for that person. We expect that person to get a response and get a reward that matches the effort. However, you should know that when you crawl on the ground for each other, the other person's eyes can't see you, only the people with you.
"Once it rains, the road is covered with mud and mud, and everyone has to step on it. However, I have my own life. I am willing to work hard and make money so that all the difficulties and hardships in this world can no longer hurt her. " This is what Fei Zhu, the "pig head" played by Yue Yunpeng, said in the movie Passing Through Your World.
College roommates lost their wallets and framed swallows. When everyone was pointing fingers, only the pig believed her. In order to support Swallow's study abroad, Pig took several jobs at the same time, and even stood on the street and was beaten, punching 10 yuan, and all the money earned was given to Swallow, 200,000 yuan in eight years. After the swallow returned to China to propose a breakup, the pig smiled and helped her pack, saying, "It's a good thing I didn't get the certificate, otherwise it would delay your life."
Even in the end, the pig dragged the stall and sold the food that swallows like to eat, and went to every place in the world with swallows' footprints. He was still waiting for swallows to come back. The ending of pig's head makes people feel sorry and sad. His whole world revolves around swallows. There is no life for him, no dreams, nothing to do, only swallows.
Tang Xianzu wrote in the inscription of Peony Pavilion: "I don't know what happened, but if we go deeper, the living can die and the dead can live." However, if you love too much, you will suffocate.
The best way to love someone is to manage yourself.
The famous writer Su Qin once said: The best way to love someone is to manage yourself well and give the other person a quality lover. If you don't try your best to be nice to someone, that person will love you desperately. Earthly feelings inevitably have a realistic side: you are valuable and your contribution is valuable.
In Sigmund's book "Psychology of Love", the author puts forward a viewpoint that can maintain long-term and fresh feelings between the two sexes, that is, "the two sides should not depend on each other, but should maintain individual independence."
Whether in love or after marriage, it is very dangerous to live with that person in a relationship. In the movie "Passing Through Your World", the pig head fell in love for 8 years and finally lost the swallow and the whole world; In the Korean drama "The Second Twenty Years Old", the heroine He Lula is a husband and a child, who has devoted 20 years of youth to the whole family and finally failed in marriage.
Love attracts each other by charm, and you can't spend my whole life. The best love is hello, I'm not bad. The two of us can go hand in hand shoulder to shoulder.
Fortress Besieged is a novel by Qian Zhongshu, which is known as "the unofficial history of the new scholars". But you know, Qian Zhongshu started writing Fortress Besieged, and wrote about 500 words every day. After writing, he always shows it to Jiang Yang as soon as possible to observe her reaction and discuss the writing content together. It can be said that without Jiang Yang, there would be no Fortress Besieged by Qian Zhongshu.
The love between Jiang Yang and Qian Zhongshu was widely circulated and became a much-told story. In the long years, no matter how many difficulties and hardships we encounter, we will go hand in hand. Two people who care about each other have become model couples in the eyes of the world. No matter personal hobbies, family background, or even academic performance, they are all equal. In Qian Zhongshu's eyes, Jiang Yang is "the most virtuous wife and the most talented woman".
Hu Heqing, who has a unique research on Qian Zhongshu, said: "Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang are a pair of famous swords in China's contemporary literature. Qian Zhongshu, like a heroic sword, is often heard like a box, and his words are shocking; Jiang Yang is like a female sword with green light and hidden treasure. He is too clever to be a fool. "
People who are loved are not necessarily high above them, and those who fall in love deeper are not necessarily as humble as slaves, ready to go. As Xia Menghuan said to Liao Zhenyu after successfully becoming a team doctor assistant, "I don't need a little slave. If you treat me like a princess, then you are my little prince. "
Life is hectic, and in a blink of an eye, it is the year of hoary head. You must have your own world first, so that you can share your world with others, instead of going to another world to find your place.