First, the core competence that contemporary college students should possess: self-study ability.
Why is self-study ability the core ability? Let's take a look at its definition first.
Self-learning ability: that is, mastering a skill without receiving guidance and education.
For example, Scott Young (Scott
Young) in 12 months, he completed all 33 courses of the legendary MIT computer science course, from linear algebra to computational theory. According to his progress, it takes only 1.5 weeks to finish a course, while ordinary people can only learn more than a dozen courses in 12 months. When you finish a course, others will leave you all over the street.
Second, a very important ability: the ability to adjust emotions.
Freshly graduated college students will encounter many things in the workplace and life, and at this time their ability to solve problems is not strong. If they don't have the ability to adjust their emotions, they will be vulnerable, lose confidence in life, and the flowers of the motherland will wither, which is a pity.
Then it is very important to adjust your emotions, that is, "awareness."
Consciousness is the first step of change. The more clearly you are aware of your painful beliefs, feelings and behaviors, the better your chances of getting rid of them.
When you experience an emotion, you often ask yourself:
How do I feel?
How do I feel? How does my body feel?
Where did I feel it? Where is it in my body?
Where does it start in my body? Where are you going?
How did I find out that others are also experiencing this emotion? Do I have this phenomenon myself?
What have I observed from my body language, intonation, thoughts and behaviors?
The sooner you are aware of your emotions, the better your chances of controlling them. Therefore, to cultivate the ability to adjust emotions, we can start with the ability of "perception".
Third, the important abilities of contemporary college students: time management ability and mobility.
Time management ability
Time management ability is an ability to use time effectively and reduce variability.
The role of time management ability: deciding what to do and what not to do.
A very important point of time management ability is to plan ahead as a reminder and guide.
Line power
Action refers to planning strategic intentions, having super self-control, and at the same time being able to break through oneself and realize what you want to do but dare not do, or what you think you are incapable of doing. When you make a plan, you are determined to carry it out. For individuals, it is self-control; For a single team, it is leadership. Mobility is also the second-level ability in the professional five-force model. Mobility is good at "speed and hands-on operation".
To be honest, these two abilities are really super important during college!
One is to use good steel on the cutting edge and divide the time reasonably and systematically, and the other is to put the idea or plan into action.
To sum up, it is the three abilities of contemporary college students that Bian Xiao compiled and released for you today.
I hope I can help you.