Before going to college, I heard from teachers, family members and seniors that it is not necessary to get along with others and it is common not to study. We should get used to loneliness and enjoy it. Only by doing one thing can we achieve something. We should not "blindly follow" and get used to loneliness.

When we really go to college, it's not exactly true that college life doesn't need to be gregarious, as others say. What they say is that we don't have to spend our spare time playing mobile phones and Tik Tok dramas in the dormitory like others, but we should use these spare time to do what we like and participate in some activities and clubs that can improve ourselves. So when should we be gregarious or unsociable?

First of all, dormitory roommates often get together and lie down in the dormitory regularly. We shouldn't fit in. We should spend part of our spare time doing things that can improve ourselves, instead of eating, drinking and having fun and occasionally getting together with classmates. However, it is unnecessary to eat, drink and be merry regularly. University is a watershed. People are divided into three or six grades at this stage, and these three or six grades do not mean one.

When you join a club or cooperative activity, you should be gregarious. These students have their own advantages and are willing to put down their mobile phones and greenhouse environment to improve their abilities. These students are undoubtedly role models for their own study, and we should improve our ability with them. College life is not like high school. In the university, everyone's talent has been displayed, and everyone's advantages and abilities have been displayed. We should cooperate with them to do something, then learn their advantages and discard their shortcomings, so as to improve our ability and be more smooth in our later life.

Treating us as students in college is definitely the most important thing to learn. For those who often go to the library for self-study, we should be gregarious, while for those who often stay in the dormitory, do not take part in activities, do not go to self-study, and just chase plays in the dormitory, we are just unsociable. In college life, we should exercise our abilities and improve our skills, so that we can have a good foothold in society and lay a good foundation four years after graduation.

The above is my personal opinion, which can be used for reference.