People have always had different attitudes towards premarital sex, and four representative views are: 1. Objection. This view holds that premarital sex is wrong under any circumstances and should be avoided. 2. Allow conditionally. This view holds that it is feasible to have sex before marriage if the relationship between the two parties is stable and loving. 3. Unconditional permission. This view tends to attract premarital sex. 4. Double standards. That is, men can have sex before marriage, but women can't. According to the survey, 5 1.62% of college students born in 1980s think that the phenomenon of unmarried cohabitation of college students is "moral degeneration" or "both sides are not mature enough". There are 3 1.2% college students who believe that premarital sex can be separated at any time as long as both parties are willing, do not cause emotional trauma and have no children. Only a few college students think that premarital sex is often inevitable in real life.
In recent years, the proportion of people who have a more tolerant attitude towards premarital sex has increased significantly. A survey of "sexual attitudes and behaviors" among 0/00 students from a medical university in Shanghai and a medical college in Shanxi shows that the incidence of premarital sexual contact among college students is gradually increasing, with 6.8% having a history of sexual contact (the average age of first sexual contact is about 20 years old). Among them, 0.98% of boys think it doesn't matter, 23.72% of girls think it matters, and 60% of boys think it matters.
Characteristics of premarital sexual behavior of college students
First, sudden, often sudden, no psychological preparation; The second is voluntary but irrational. College students are young, less threatened by others, and most of their sexual behaviors are voluntary and irrational. Third, repetition. Due to the influence of age and concept, once we break through this line of defense, we will no longer worry too much and it will happen again and again.
College students who have premarital sex are often influenced by the western concept of "sex and sexual liberation" and don't think too much about crossing sexual boundaries, but on the other hand, girls often hope to marry someone else after having sex, which reflects that the feudal concept of "loyalty to their own lives" in the subconscious is playing a leading role, leading to serious psychological conflicts.