Cohabitation between male and female college students is a common phenomenon. As early as 200 1, an anonymous questionnaire survey was published. The survey results show that almost 75% of college students support or at least do not oppose cohabitation. The conclusion of the 2007 Guangdong Sexology Report released recently is that compared with six years ago, the number of college students who are tolerant of cohabitation has increased by 1 1.5 percentage points, reaching 86.5%. This is actually not worth making a fuss about.

Everyone has the right to pursue happiness, which naturally includes sexual satisfaction. It is the natural instinct of human beings, so it is also a part of natural human rights. It is an inevitable obligation for anyone who demands his own sexual rights to respect and not destroy the sexual rights of others. As college students, like other adults, enjoying sex is part of the free exercise of rights, and it does not hinder who comes.

Moreover, the common phenomenon of college students living together did not begin today. It is an indisputable fact that male and female college students have lived together for more than a hundred years from the abolition of the imperial system and the introduction of western civilization to the opening of universities. We can see some modern novels involving college students, such as Lu Xun's Mourning for the Past and Ding Ling's Diary of Ms. Sha Fei. As long as you are willing and don't violate the criminal law, no one needs to mind their own business.

However, probably because it can attract people's attention, we have always enjoyed the survey of college students' cohabitation, and the conclusion of each survey is surprisingly consistent: cohabitation is a scourge, and we will regret it for a lifetime! On September 8, the Information Times repeated this cliche: "Among the college students who have lived together, 60% regret living together."

The implication is that the consequences of cohabitation are terrible, college students, don't live together! One of the reasons to support this argument is: "the lack of living expenses is the main factor of college students' regret."

Extended data:

The psychology that causes college students to want to live together mainly includes the following points:

The first is the curiosity to follow suit. Nowadays, college students are young, curious and like to chase fashion, so they also have the motivation to follow suit and live together.

The second is the psychology of eating, drinking and enjoying in time. In today's colleges and universities, the concept of "I don't care about eternity, but I want to have it once" is still popular. No matter whether two people are in love or not, no matter whether they live together or not, most people have cohabiting partners who hit it off. Live together for a few days, and live together for a while.

The third is the psychology of relieving stress. Some college students have poor family conditions during their studies, but their tuition fees are too high and their life pressure is too great; Others are worried about employment and survival before graduation. Need decompression. But in the face of these pressures, it is difficult for them to adjust themselves, so it is not uncommon for them to try to relieve the pressure and buffer their emotions by living together.

The fourth is vanity. It is popular among college students that "cohabitation is anyone's honor", so no matter boys or girls, some people pursue cohabitation objects with good family conditions or superior family and political background.

The fifth is the psychology of temporary care. This kind of psychology is not uncommon among cohabiting college students. In the survey, we found that many students from disadvantaged families often feel inferior and hold their heads up because of their own conditions. Two people with the same background come together, sympathize with each other and help each other, forming the psychology of temporary care, so that they have help and dependence. Although the cohabitation between them is relatively poor and unremarkable, it can also be very interesting.

Reference source: Baidu Encyclopedia-College Students Cohabitation

Reference source; People's Daily Online-A series of surveys on college students' living conditions in China: Sexual openness pervades university campuses.