Mr. Zhu Ziqing said: "Reality is a kind of character, but it is also an attitude; Attitude is out of need, out of social or social needs. "
People often say that you can make mistakes, but you can't be without attitude. It turns out that all sincerity lies in the attitude of saying and not saying.
In the workplace, there is a phenomenon that whether you can develop in the company for a long time depends on your ability, and the attitude of getting along with leaders is an important key.
The company terminated the labor relationship with two employees some time ago, and the supervisor's words were:
"If you don't obey management, you don't want to use it. Only when a person knows where he is can he do things well. Moreover, as long as he is not too stupid, I can take him out at any time. "
Indeed, as a manager, when you have resources, you will give priority to a good attitude.
Because, from the sincere attitude of the other party, he not only gained respect, but also gained a sense of relaxation after his needs were met.
In the workplace, there are still some people who not only gain the trust and appreciation of the leaders, but also rise and rise again. The relationship with colleagues is also very harmonious.
Ran Yan is the second Jia Ling: "Men like her, but women don't envy her."
Looking at his behavior, I found that his attitude towards colleagues and leaders was particularly modest. He puts himself in a particularly low position and has a very good attitude towards everyone, which is a very comfortable attitude.
Be neither supercilious nor supercilious, be able to be yourself and take care of others' faces.
I think this should be an indispensable sincere attitude in the workplace.
In life, interpersonal communication is the most common social communication, and it can also best reflect the differences between people.
Mr. Zhu Ziqing said: "People are different from people, personnel and things, and it is the most difficult to teach by example." This kind of decent words and deeds are vividly reflected between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Why do you say the same thing? My mother said, and my mother-in-law said, the effect is very different. Similarly, so do wives and daughters.
Because we don't know enough about our mother-in-law (daughter-in-law) to be honest with each other. In other words, our relationship and feelings have not reached the point where we can open our hearts to each other.
Even if it is true or good, it will feel insincere. Attitude is the most important test of mother-in-law relationship. As Mr. Zhu Ziqing said, "Too much sincerity is too cheap."
Among my friends, I think this sentence by Mr. Zhu Ziqing is the most appropriate. "People live for themselves and for others. It is sincere to take care of the feelings of others without hurting your identity. "
On the wine table, everyone is very enthusiastic, as if they have known each other for thousands of years, and they are old friends and old friends. In fact, each other came together because of one of the talents, so this time we were eating and drinking at the same table.
Perhaps this is the sincerity on the wine table in communication. Don't talk about feelings, don't participate in interests, meet for a drink, and tomorrow will be passers-by.
This sincerity is more obvious in men. It seems that their friendship grows in wine and ends in wine.
Of course, very close friends also need wine to entertain. It seems that wine is a sincere medium.
Maybe they are not drinking wine, but sincere and attitude.
In social interaction, sincerity is the soul, but it also needs politeness, a sense of boundary and appropriate limits as an ornament. Knowing the value of sincerity will not make it too much and too cheap.