In the eyes of most people, you can't fall in love without going to college, which means that everything before college is puppy love, but a recent survey seems to have broken the boundaries of puppy love. According to news reports, 54% of parents do not object to high school students' love, and think that "high school students' love is reasonable". Among them, 14% people choose to "accept and hope to take each other home to see" and 40% people choose to "turn a blind eye". If high school love is suppressed blindly, it will hurt students' psychology and even form hidden emotional obstacles. At the same time, we should also see that although high school students are physically mature, they still have a long way to go to be psychologically mature. At this time, their emotions still need the concern of parents and teachers. In the high school stage, children are in the physiological development period, and their desire for the opposite sex and love is particularly prominent. In this special period, if parents just stop without correct guidance, many accidents will happen. In fact, you can fall in love when you go to college, and high school and college are not far away. Why not listen to your child's thoughts at this time and guide him to talk about a pure campus love without affecting his study? This is also a good memory of children in adolescence. The key is to give some sex education to children in the process of guidance, don't let the adolescent impulse get carried away, and tell them the responsibility they should bear in love. In a word, correct guidance is better than forced strangulation. 2 How to treat high school students' love correctly? When parents find out that their children are in love, do they just stand by and do nothing? You must do something to feel comfortable. Indeed, in order to relieve parents' anxiety, parents need to do something. First of all, plan ahead and be yourself. Parents have harmonious feelings, harmonious family atmosphere, care about children's emotions, and children's emotions are in a state of satisfaction, so they will not fall into crazy love. In addition, parents should adjust the state of getting along with their children according to their different ages. Parents of primary school students are nannies, parents of junior high school students are mentors, and parents of senior high school students should be consultants. The consultant is a child. Ask him if he cares. If he doesn't care, ask less. Secondly, we should know the law and use Dayu to control water. Many parents want their children to live in an ideal state similar to a vacuum without worldly desires, but this is not in line with the law. Although children are small, they are also complete people, and parents who ignore their children's emotions are not good parents. A better way is to guide children to deal with problems in love and discuss appropriate behavior norms with children. For example, you can fall in love, but having sex is the bottom line; If it does, pregnancy is the bottom line; If you are pregnant, telling your parents at the first time is the bottom line. Wait a minute. It is more effective to tell children the code of conduct in different situations than to limit children's experience of love.