In my study career before college, we studied in the same class, and the busy study made the students live in a high group. I don't have my own time. In the work and life after college, we need to realize our value in a team, and the handling of interpersonal relationships will consume a lot of our energy. Occasionally, a period of loneliness and singleness is occupied by survival. When I settled down, I was trapped in my family. Time becomes the use of two people. Think about it carefully, it seems that there is only a university in a person's life, and there is a lot of free time.
So don't fall in love in college. Because this may be the happiest time you can enjoy alone in your life. If you are not in love, you can't share your time with anyone. I go running in the playground alone, reading in the library alone, enjoying food in the canteen alone, traveling by bike alone, thinking alone ... Some people may feel how lonely it is when they see it here! However, this is just the idea of others, and only those who have done so will understand that this is a kind of enjoyment. People who do this will know themselves better and ask themselves, how many of us have made a lot of time to get along with ourselves?
Yes, we need to spend a lot of time with ourselves. You won't know a person until you get along with him for a long time. By the same token, only when you are alone with yourself for a long time can you understand what you want and what you should do in the future. There is only time to think, and what our university lacks is thinking. We often become extremely impetuous because of the temptation of society.
In fact, falling in love in college is not as beautiful as everyone described. I have always thought that in this world, truly loving two people is a drop in the ocean. Most college students' love is like flowers on the other side. It looks beautiful, but it is difficult to have a result. In the end, only both sides lose. Why can't we make time for a love affair with ourselves?
Some people may think that I can't eat grapes and say that grapes are sour. I want to say, whatever you say, human nature is complicated and I can't fully understand it. It is impossible to please everyone. In college, gregarious is a derogatory term in my opinion. It takes a lot of courage to be alone.
Really, for those of you who are in college, but are troubled by Xiuen's love or are about to go to college, I want to give you a piece of advice: never fall in love in college. Give yourself a time to be unsociable, a time to be alone, and a time to fall in love with yourself. Perhaps, because of this time, you will feel that your life is more complete.