Teach children in time and let them live a collective life in the university dormitory. You should not indulge your child, but let him know that he must study hard and have the ability to earn before he can spend. Don't be so ambitious at an early age. This is the condition of our family, which can't reach the level of relatives. If you want to live that life, change it yourself. Children should not be allowed to keep up with the joneses and buy luxury goods. If handled well, let it progress. If you don't handle it well, you will be lazy and enjoy it.