With the opening of the policy of encouraging the birth of a second child in China on 20 15, many older women gave birth to a second child regardless of the risk of giving birth at an advanced age. There are even grandmothers in their forties and fifties. The older they are, the greater the risk of having children. Especially in the 40 s and 50 s or even higher, they are not only facing the risk of childbirth, but also more difficult to feed their children. Children go to college, and their parents may be seventy or eighty years old. How can they raise children again? This issue has also aroused widespread discussion in society. In fact, as early as 1 1 years ago, an old lady in her 60s in China ignored other people's advice and gave birth to twin daughters. What on earth made her risk having children in her sixties? And 1 1 years later, what is the life of their family like? The woman named Sheng Hailin is a doctor in a hospital in Hefei, Anhui. After meeting her husband, they formed a happy family.
Sheng Hailin's career went from bad to worse. Later, she worked hard and succeeded in becoming the dean of a hospital. Under her management, the hospital is in an orderly way. Sheng Hailin also made a lot of money. The husband is a soldier, and both of them have high incomes, food and clothing, and are richer than ordinary families. Sheng Hailin, whose family and career are stable, gave birth to her only daughter Tingting at the age of 3/kloc-0.
Tingting is a clever daughter who is good at singing and dancing. The husband and wife love their children very much and do their best to accompany them. Tingting, a beautiful and excellent girl, has many suitors around her when she grows up. Tingting chose a man who shares her interests. They got married at the wish of their parents. After marriage, Tingting and her husband loved each other. Sheng Hailin is happy to see Tingting, and her son-in-law is gentle and sincere. She and her husband are naturally very happy. Originally a warm and harmonious family, a sudden accident broke their quiet life. Tingting and her husband were going back to their hometown at that time. The gas leaked the night before, resulting in the death of both husband and wife. Sheng Hailin, who learned the terrible news, couldn't accept the pain of losing her daughter on the spot and fainted to the ground. After waking up, she and her husband stayed in Lacrimosa for a whole day, immersed in the great sadness that the hair man sent the brunette.
Sheng Hailin and her husband only wanted such a daughter, and her departure undoubtedly took away all the joy in the family. Perhaps the best way to relieve pain is only time. Gradually, Sheng Hailin and her husband accepted the fact that their daughter had left. Life goes on, husband and wife encourage each other and accompany each other. Go on living. Usually it's okay, but every holiday and Chinese New Year, it's a lively atmosphere of family reunion and relatives gathering. But Sheng Hailin's family is deserted, as long as two lonely old people are lonely. Tingting died too early, leaving no children. Sheng Hailin, who was lonely in his later years, once thought about adopting a child. Inadvertently, Sheng Hailin was deeply touched by the news of foreign 60-year-old IVF. Sheng Hailin had the idea of having a child in his life. After the husband learned, he refused for a while.
Regardless of 60, the possibility of pregnancy is simply zero. Just spending at an advanced age means risking your life. As a medical worker, Sheng Hailin didn't know the risks. However, the family happiness and the company of children in his later years made Sheng Hailin feel even more excited. After repeated persuasion, the husband finally agreed.
Sheng Hailin consulted many books about IVF and went to many hospitals for consultation. However, Sheng Hailin's age is so real that many hospitals dare not take risks and refuse her. In the end, everything paid off. Sheng Hailin finally found the hospital and agreed to be a test-tube baby for her. Fortunately, Sheng Hailin's physical examination and pregnancy index are up to standard.
In 20 10, Sheng Hailin gave birth to two beloved twin daughters in the hospital. At the age of 60, Sheng Hailin became the oldest woman at that time. Both husband and wife are immersed in the joy of their eldest daughter. Sheng Hailin and her husband named their daughters "Zhi Zhi" and "Hui Hui", hoping that they would be smart, happy and safe all their lives. Sheng Hailin was born in his sixties, and his two daughters are much weaker than other children. When she was discharged from the hospital, the mother and daughter spent hundreds of thousands. Although Sheng Hailin and her husband have worked for many years, they have accumulated considerable savings and their retirement wages are higher than ordinary people. However, being a test-tube baby and having a baby in a hospital once cost the couple more than half of their savings.
After the children came home, the old couple took care of the two children, which was obviously a bit overwhelming. In this case, Sheng Hailin took a month off, and a month later, the child's milk powder, diapers, and monthly salary. Let the originally wealthy couple simply become a "moonlight family." But compared with his two beloved daughters, the huge expenditure seems to lack something that annoys Sheng Hailin. Not long after the happy days, Sheng Hailin's husband was suddenly paralyzed by a stroke and had to lie in bed for care. The expenses at home have increased again, and all this falls on Sheng Hailin alone.
Sheng Hailin can only go back to work and train employees after retirement. Sometimes, in order to earn more money, she has to travel all over the country to give lectures in her sixties. In the past 1 1 year, Sheng Hailin was over 70 years old, while his two daughters were only teenagers. In the future, children's fun classes will be expensive and expensive. Twin daughters still have a long way to go in the future, and they need their parents' companionship and feeding. In an interview with reporters, Sheng Hailin once showed remorse. She said: "If I go back to the beginning, I will definitely not be excited to have children. I will definitely think twice before you do." Sheng Hailin's only consolation in bearing the burden of his family is to go home and see the beloved smiling faces of his two daughters. Maybe she thinks everything is worth it.
Many things in life have two sides. When we make a choice. Often only see the good side, and ignore it will have a certain impact on our lives. In any case, Sheng Hailin's advanced birth has brought a glimmer of hope to many older young people who dare not have children. Giving birth to a child is not as difficult as everyone thinks. However, raising children should also be decided according to the family situation. If the family is rich and complete, it can bear the cost of the child's birth and school, so that he can eat and drink enough and choose to have a second child. And if your family is ordinary and your life is just passable, you should think twice before you act. After all, it is not easy to have children, and it is even harder to raise children.