1, the most important thing is sincerity. Many times people are willing to talk to you and associate with you, not because you are beautiful and boastful, but because you are sincere, others will not think you are pretending and lying, they will reciprocate, and they will open their hearts to you.
2, followed by mentality, everyone is equal, especially among classmates, there is no distinction between high and low, we don't owe others anything, why do we feel inferior? Some people can be said to be extroverted and have a lot of exercise, but you dare not say or can't say it. Perhaps it is because you are afraid that what you say will be laughed at and not recognized, so you don't have to live in the eyes of others, and live a high style and charm. Everyone is unique and irreplaceable.
3. Third, whether in study or life, we should participate more and care more. Only when you have mutual understanding in ordinary contact, will you let go of your guard, pay more attention to people around you, pay attention to their hobbies, and do your best to help them, and you will become one and gain everyone's recognition. In the process of participation, you will definitely get the exercise of communication.
4, to guide. Research shows that people are willing to talk about things they are interested in. When you don't know what to say, you can try to ask their hobbies, try to open a topic from their hobbies, and then extend the topic. Of course, you may be insensitive or unfamiliar with their topic. At this time, you can be an audience and ask some questions appropriately to show your interest. This method is more practical for you at present.
5. No matter how good the method is, you should practice it yourself. Usually, you should dabble in the knowledge you are interested in or mainstream, such as cars, facts, and writing games like DOTA in college. In society, you may have to have a deep understanding of your career and have "goods" in mind to cope.
In short, communication does not happen overnight. You need to study hard and cultivate yourself slowly. You should be open-minded and save face, enrich your brain, and benefit me more and more. Who wouldn't like it? Who wouldn't talk to you? Come on! !