As a monitor, what you need to do is to adjust the learning atmosphere and unity spirit of the class. A monitor of a university is a qualified monitor if he has enough leadership and enough deterrence. You can reason with your classmates, tell them what is right and wrong, and tell them what you think.
You can also make a plan for this course. These are all things that are beneficial to the class and what you can do for the class. There is really no need to lose your temper. University is a place for self-study, and teachers don't care much. Why did you hit the gun? They can learn by themselves if they want to, and it doesn't matter if they don't want to, as long as it doesn't affect others.
If it affects others, it has nothing to do with you. The affected people will adjust themselves. It is impossible for such a big man to have a monitor in charge. It's also embarrassing to say. If it affects you, you can tell her, but really don't lose your temper. Once you lose your temper in front of some classmates.
Then your position in the class will decline, and many people will resent your behavior. If it is serious, you may be quarantined. The monitor of the university is very important, but it can't satisfy all the students' suggestions. The monitor of a university is basically elected by students. If you lose your temper with them, they will jointly tell the counselor.
Asking to replace you will also do some damage to your reputation, so even if you lose your temper, even if someone influences you, you should pay attention to the occasion. You can say that in private, but if you manage everyone in the class like high school, junior high school and primary school, then your monitor will definitely be hated by many people.
Then, as a monitor, you should communicate with them more, and think more about the class and convince others by reasoning. I believe that you will win the support of many people when you are a monitor. Even if you have been a monitor for three years in a row, it is very possible. Even if you have any difficulties in the class reunion in the future, people in the class will be willing to help you.
University is a place to make friends. As a small society, you can make many friends only if you are kind and have a delicate heart. If you can't control your temper, there won't be many people willing to make friends with you. After all, not everyone can control their small temper like a girlfriend.
As an adult, college students will have their own ideas and standards for choosing friends. I have a bad temper, but I will restrain myself in college. Otherwise, how can I get used to others and become friends with others? Who will be friends with a person who is angry with himself? That's why we used to be so grumpy.
Everyone in the university should learn to exercise restraint, and try to hold back as much as possible. Don't think that being a monitor means taking care of everything. You should know what you want to care about and what you shouldn't care about, so there is no need to lose your temper with your classmates in the autonomous learning environment of the university.