First, strive to improve your true self:
Improving the realistic self is the behavior and corresponding psychological activity of college students to constantly correct the realistic self and make it develop in the right direction of ideal self. In order to constantly overcome the old self and rebuild the new self, we must strive to develop ourselves, actively serve the society and bravely shoulder the burden of history. Only based on social needs, starting from personal reality, and making their behavior conform to social norms and requirements, can they be recognized by the society.
Correct cognition is the basis of improving self-cognition. On the one hand, it is self-description, that is, self-analysis of personality, strengths, interests, hobbies, and their own weaknesses. If you can fully understand yourself and face it objectively, you can determine your position and work hard in a down-to-earth manner.
Second, exercise self-regulation ability:
Self-regulation is a psychological process in which college students actively and directionally change their psychological qualities, characteristics and behaviors. First of all, we should formulate a perfect action plan and procedure to make our actions orderly and avoid blindness, but at the same time, we should also pay attention to strict implementation after the plan is formulated and not to change it frequently. Self-control is the key to improve self-awareness. If a person can't control his behavior, there is no possibility of success.
It was not built in a day. True self-control is self-discipline. It can't control wasting time, the desire to blame others, its own living habits, its own desire for profit, and all immoral behaviors.
Third, cultivate a sound will quality:
People with a sound voice will show strong consciousness, decisiveness, self-control and tenacity in their actions, but effective supervision and control of themselves cannot be separated from the power of will. Only individuals with sound will can effectively control themselves and finally realize their ideal self. Therefore, college students should improve their tolerance for psychological conflicts and setbacks in daily life and cultivate self-sound will quality.
Only if you can accept yourself can others accept you. It is not narcissism, but self-confidence and positive sunshine, which is a healthy state of mind. Only in this way can you cultivate the qualities of self-confidence, self-improvement and self-reliance and have a good self-awareness.