I. Introduction

In recent years, college students' suicides have been staged constantly, which makes people sad and worries all walks of life. There seems to be no sign of stopping. This group uses death to show some of their real living conditions, and uses death to tell the problems of today's society, family, education and themselves. In order to make college students understand the problem of suicide and prevent more people from committing suicide, this paper expounds the views of students of Grade 08 in our department on college students' suicide. I have my own opinion that life is worse than death. This time, unlike in the past, I have been talking about the reasons and influences, but through interviews, I explained the facts with real data and expounded the profound meaning behind the facts.

Second, research methods.

Interview survey method was adopted. Start with a chat and record the main points. This process is smooth and sometimes very exciting. Some students even call names, which is really a bit bad.

Third, data analysis and discussion.

Through investigation, 53% students disapprove of suicide, saying that they have no heart, no liver and no lungs, which has caused much harm to their parents and friends; There are 32% people who don't understand them and are not afraid of death. What else can they pass? There are 8% students who are kind and think that the social pressure is too great, so they should understand what they have done and forgive themselves. The remaining 7% students said it was none of their business. This kind of boring behavior is not worth discussing. This survey takes Grade 08 of our department as the survey object. Among them, business majors account for 40%, tourism majors account for 20%, translation majors account for 20%, international trade majors account for 10%, and girls account for 85%. 7% students think it's none of their business. I think this is really worrying. They don't care enough about the performance of society and people around them. If they encounter difficulties, they will get the same treatment and others will ignore you.

Four. conclusion

Suicide is irresponsible to society, family and friends. Although some people can't figure it out, don't pay attention to it, and don't want to forgive college students for suicide, it still happens around us.

Nowadays, people dare to do anything, even death is no exception. Every day, when you open newspapers and the Internet, you can almost find the shadow of college students committing suicide. Now when it comes to such incidents, everyone is used to it. However, I still choose to live and not die.

Last week, a high school classmate of a university in Guangdong came to our school to play, and chatted and ran to this topic. She sighed and said slowly that another pool sister in Zhaoqing school committed suicide. It's a pity that we have lost rice for so many years. I didn't say anything. She went on to say that I heard that my family is quite rich, but my parents' education is too inhuman. I have never considered her ideas, and I always force her to study. In the end, I lost my last daughter, and I really deserved it. She can do nothing but study. In fact, she doesn't like studying. Her suicide note said that she was full of new hopes for the university, but she was disappointed. She complained that there were eight people in the dormitory instead of four, and she had no friends. . . . . . I am depressed, and her academic performance is declining. The family asked her how she did in the exam, not how warm and cold she was. In the end, she chose to leave this world without her. My friend said it was purely because she couldn't think of it, and the requirements were too high to handle the problem. Still wondering how the victim committed suicide in the toilet.

After living for 20 years, what a pity it is for an outsider to die like this. How did her parents react? Sadness is certain, isn't there any regret? Their daughter's death is to a great extent their bane. In this case, I use it to interview our classmates. Of course, there are many kinds of voices, so I will say two representative views. First, of course, I don't approve of her suicide. Suicide is an escape. In the case of the deceased, she was avoiding the troubles she faced, including the problems given to her by her family and the interpersonal relationships she met at school. Some people say that she was so happy that her legs stretched out and left a mess. No matter how unkind your parents are, they will still love you in the future. What will happen to them in the future? She used so many social resources, but got nothing in return. She has no right to kill herself. In fact, even if you don't say this, people have to think for themselves. The road of life is only a few decades. Ups and downs are the only way in life. If you can survive, you are the winner. If you can't survive, you are a coward. Suicide is the ultimate destination of cowards and is not recognized. Second, forgive suicide. If this view is published online, it is estimated that it will be questioned and bombarded by many netizens. But there are always people who will stick to the same point of view. Honestly, it helps. Until I die, no one can understand me. Only death can win everyone's understanding. I don't quite agree. In our society, college students are really under great pressure, such as studies, classmates' relationships, love problems, family relationships and so on. , but you have to rely on your own perseverance to overcome. We can't say that they jump off a building when they are under pressure. Otherwise, the social environment we face is similar, and everyone has to queue up to jump off the building. This influence is a bit bad.

Life is worse than death, that's my point. I remember, someone asked me, have you ever thought about suicide? I was shocked at that time. Say to that person, don't die, I love you very much. If you die, I will cry to death. He just stared at me and said, no way, are you kidding? Just asking. I replied with a sigh, of course not, just thinking about my parents and you friends, I won't give up. This is really my idea. I really don't want to give up and I don't have the courage. I always believe that people have to go through trials and difficulties to get real happiness. No matter how big it is, there will always be a day in the past. Of course, we must work hard to solve what can be solved, and don't get bogged down in what can't be solved. Isn't everyone supposed to have an optimistic heart to be happy? Why do you want to push yourself to the wall? Isn't it a pity that death is not necessarily clean, but it has become a stain in the eyes of others that you can't erase all your life?

So, college students, don't always think about death. Life is worse than death!