However, this only meets the spiritual needs of both sides, mutual understanding, mutual tolerance and mutual concern. It may be ok to simply fall in love and need each other spiritually, but marriage depends on each other's economic strength, and the woman values these more, so your girlfriend is hesitant about you because you don't have a high degree and can't see the future. If you can prove that you can give her the life she wants, she may take the initiative to contact you, talk to you about life and feelings.
Now you don't have a job or a high salary to prove your strength, but if you graduate, she may follow others. Therefore, if you want to prove yourself, you can only work in the summer, earn some tuition, accumulate work experience and prove your ability, and you must give yourself a long-term development goal, such as joining a small company in three years, becoming a department manager in five years, and making greater development in ten years. A ten-year plan is enough. If it is too long, there will be many variables, and you can't accurately predict what will happen in the future.
The prospect of this decade must have concrete achievable goals and clear plans. Make her think you're not just talking. Send this goal and plan to her by email, let her see your confidence and efforts in the future, and tell her your progress every once in a while. Make her feel that you are really carrying out every step of your plan. Turn dreams into reality step by step. She will worship you. Because women fall in love with a man, on the one hand, they can meet his spiritual needs, on the other hand, they can gradually meet his material needs.
When looking for a job after graduation, don't blindly send resumes everywhere. Whether it is an electronic version or a paper version, it may not be good to cast a net in an all-round way, but the return rate of key training is high. You will find three or five companies that may want you according to your major, and then log on to their official website to learn more about all aspects of this company. Then you will know what kind of talents this company needs. You should prove yourself in the interview and make the recruiter feel that you are the most suitable candidate, so that you can stand out from many applicants and sign a contract with the company to start your career. At the same time, you should accumulate your wealth in all aspects: experience, professional knowledge, contacts, money, wisdom, and you will step by step onto the peak of life. At that time, your love career will have a double harvest.
Good luck, young man!