If a person is always attached to others and family, can't achieve personal emotional independence and can't do things independently, then he will lack interest in the cause of doing things independently and will be eliminated by the market competition of survival of the fittest for a long time.
1, take the role change seriously. From the moment you leave the campus, you will no longer be a "child", and you can't be willful and do whatever you want like a child, giving up dependence on others. As an independent "social person", you should be psychologically mature as soon as possible, learn to think independently, and be as independent as possible economically.