There are two reasons for this.
One reason is that they only look the same when they graduate, but the real difference is actually very big. It's just that they were all college students at first, so it's hard to say.
For example, some people have read hundreds of extra-curricular books in order to study for four years, but this kind of effort is not obvious in school, and it can't even make the test scores higher.
For example, some people are born smarter than others, but in school, their scores are only slightly higher than the average. He saved a lot of study time and spent it all on playing games.
For example, some people have very good conditions at home, but they can eat, drink and play computer with everyone at school instead of driving around in a luxury car.
Others are lucky. Going out and entering the company happens to be Tencent Ali in the early days of the venture, but even if there is such luck in the school, it will not be played out.
It feels almost the same, but it's actually a hundred thousand miles away.
Another reason is that everyone's desires are very different, and the price they are willing to pay for their desires is also very different.
As I said before, some people have found a job that can be accumulated and accumulated for ten or twenty years, far outperforming those with similar initial conditions. After all, most people stop eating after three years of progress. Working for ten years is no different from working for three years.
But the question is, why do you insist on progress?
It sounds incredible, as if life should keep moving forward in this world, but it is not.
People generally muddle along. The poor are still like this, let alone the rich.
When you really persist in walking for five years and ten years, you have far surpassed most of your classmates at that time, so why do you persist in going through hardships until the twentieth year? Especially those who have long been financially free, why are they still fanning the flames, and even at the risk of giving up all their previous efforts, they still refuse to back down?
On the surface, some people work hard to make money. The result is that they are still working hard after making money and don't want to stop at all. After a short rest, they felt it was a waste of life.
They live to keep moving forward, so they are willing to pay a huge price for moving forward, instead of moving forward to live, and they will stop if they live a little better.
Although this outlook on life is not entirely innate and greatly influenced by the day after tomorrow, it is definitely beyond the scope of education, mainly relying on the accumulation of population base, with one out of hundreds of thousands of people.
There are others who are not so exaggerated. Their pure ambition is a little bigger than that of ordinary people. The bigger they get, the farther they go. When they are satisfied, they will slow down.
Even if other conditions are the same, they still walk faster and farther than ordinary people, and the longer the time, the greater the difference.