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What should I do if I always want to cry when I am unhappy in college?
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I received a message from a female student the other day.

To tell the truth, after the college entrance examination every year, "failure in the college entrance examination" is an unavoidable topic.

No way, the college entrance examination is a selective college entrance examination. Since someone did well in the exam, someone must have done badly.

Then, what should we do for the students whose college entrance examination results do not meet expectations?

First of all, I personally don't encourage repetition.

Because repetition itself is an extremely exhausting process, and the mental stress of repetition is even more unbearable than that of senior three.

Furthermore, even if you repeat, can you guarantee that your exam results will be better than last year's?

There are countless failures in re-reading every year, and it is really difficult to really get through the mental pressure of senior four and come to the end.

Therefore, if you can't get into a high-quality double-class university, but you don't even get into such a "poor exam" with a huge gap, I won't support other types of repetition with grades only ten points worse than usual or a little worse than your ideal university.

What kind of mentality should I face when I arrive at an unsatisfactory university?

What I want to emphasize is that the university is really just a platform, and how to use this platform is the most important thing. People who come out of the same university often have very different future development.

Moreover, even if you fail in the exam and go to an unsatisfactory university, it may not be the best in this university.

Take myself as an example. After my freshman year, I personally felt that it was extremely difficult to get high numbers. I thank Tiandi for getting 85, but someone in my major got 100.

If you really feel that the university you attend is not worthy of you, then you can give full play to your strength in the university. Improve your grade point, become the first in your major, get a national scholarship, and finally go to Qingbei for postgraduate study.

Isn't it a good ending to be the best "chicken head" in a university that you don't think is ideal and take all the high-quality resources of the university?

For those students who have not been admitted to one book, I suggest preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination.

It may be cruel to say so, but society is so cruel. A big company that says it is "unlimited in academic qualifications" will not want to recruit a student who is not even a student. Discrimination against academic qualifications is everywhere in society.

Therefore, when you have no ability to change the world, you can only change yourself and adapt to the world.

Then, prepare for college for four years to study hard.

Finally, a friendly reminder, the university environment will greatly affect your personal efforts, especially the learning environment in the dormitory. The environment you are facing now is unknown and unpredictable, but if you are really in a lazy and negative environment, I hope you can keep your initial heart and improve your self-discipline, so stick to it, go where you want to go, achieve what you want and meet the people you want to meet.

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