One: tell

1. I am an adult, and I want my parents' blessing on my love. My parents can also give me advice.

I hope both parents know, not just one parent. I can't say I told my parents and you didn't.

3. If parents are open-minded and not opposed to love, they can choose to tell their parents. But at the same time, be prepared that parents will ask all kinds of questions.

I want to pay more living expenses. After all, my expenses increased instantly after falling in love. Eating together, watching movies together and dating together are unavoidable, and sometimes I may want to travel during the holidays.

Second: don't say.

1. What if parents are told that they object? How to deal with it then, it's a headache to think about it.

My parents have repeatedly told me that I should study hard in college and not fall in love. How dare I tell you?

If parents are conservative and opposed to love, I personally think it is better not to tell them in the short term.

4. Girls go to school outside, and their parents are not in front of their parents, and they have objects. Parents will worry about their daughters' safety.

Third, many opposed parents will forcibly participate in your love life, deny college love in all directions, and add a lot of unnecessary trouble to you;

1. Secondly, many of your normal trips, phone calls, social activities, etc. are known by your parents who are opposed to love. It will become related to the object of love in their eyes, and they will get involved more or less.

Most importantly, some parents may even think that you didn't make enough progress in college. Why can't others get scholarships?

Why can others pass CET-4 and CET-6 and you can't?

Why can others be admitted to graduate school and you can't?

Parents will blame you for most of the reasons.

Four: It depends.

1. If the relationship is stable, you can see it by discussing it with the other half.

I will tell you, but I won't tell you until I have a stable job after graduation.

3. Falling in love in college is talking about love, and graduation is reality. Many things are uncertain, and telling parents will increase trouble.