But when asked about the background of the graduation school, he said with emotion: "At present, the biggest regret in my life is that I have not been admitted to a prestigious school.
"In fact, Li Dan graduated from junior high school and got the first place in the school. High school is in a rebellious period, and it is a particularly awesome thing to rebel against contemporary education. After several years of crazy play, the college entrance examination missed a good school and missed many initial development opportunities.
Although the college entrance examination is not enough for you to decide your life, it will definitely affect your future.
Every year in the college entrance examination, I envy this group of students when I see all kinds of news, which may be the youthful memories of a 30-year-old uncle.
Now every student who takes the college entrance examination is happy. As for you, you have a chance to take the college entrance examination, while some people don't even have a chance.
Take a good exam, no matter whether your grades are good or not, don't leave any regrets for your youth. Many years later, you will find some regrets, no matter how much money you spend in the future, you can't make up for it.
What you hate today is yesterday that we can't go back.
With the rising channel getting narrower and narrower, whoever can stand out in the college entrance examination will save some weight for leaving the original class.
Although the society has always advertised to speak with ability, it is undeniable that there is a contempt chain when HR screens resumes: Qingbei >; 985 >2 1 1 & gt； One > two > three > universities.
It's hard to get into a so-called big company without the ability!
At the Wuzhen Internet Conference last year, a photo exploded the circle of friends. This 16 Internet giant, the most powerful in China, almost all graduated from famous universities at home and abroad.
For example, Liu was born in Renmin University of China, and many of them were top candidates in the college entrance examination.
Some people joked that it is not only because there is no money, but also because there is no diploma from a prestigious school.
20 16 "International Finance News" made a survey on the academic level of executives of 500 domestic A-share listed companies, and found that 84% of the executives had higher academic qualifications, and half of them graduated from 985 University.
The top 10 directors are paid, and 8 of them graduated from key undergraduate colleges.
Of course, Ma Yun is an exception, provided that you can guarantee that you have Ma Yun's knowledge and mind.
No matter what country, excellent educational resources are scarce, all over the world.
A good school has the top educational resources and a group of the best peers.
You choose not only the school, but the circle with the same frequency. People you know in this circle can even make you take fewer detours.
I admit, a good school cannot guarantee that you will automatically get a high-paying position after graduation, nor can it guarantee that your life will start from now on.
But if you can get into a good school, the biggest gain is that you can reshape your temperament, way of thinking and pattern under the influence of the surrounding environment.
Thinking affects behavior, and vision determines the pattern.
It is difficult for a poor family to have another child.
Look at a set of data: the probability of urban students being admitted to Peking University is 6. 18 times that of rural students!
Assuming that there are 65,438+10,000 middle school students and 1000 students admitted to Peking University, there are about 45,370 urban students and 54,630 rural students.
Then 837 out of 45,370 urban students are admitted to Peking University, so the proportion of urban students attending Peking University is 1.84%, and only 163 out of 54,630 rural students are admitted to Peking University, while the proportion of rural students attending Peking University is 0.29%. The probability of urban students being admitted to Peking University is 6. 18 times that of rural students!
I should still remember. 20 17 Xiong Xuan, the champion of liberal arts in Beijing college entrance examination, was angry, not because he got a high score of 690, but because he told a big truth in an interview:
What I said in an interview with the media at that time:
"It's getting harder and harder for rural children to get into that good school. You belong to the middle class like me, your parents are intellectuals, and you were born in a big city like Beijing, so you are unique in enjoying this educational resource.
Many foreign children, or children in rural areas, simply can't enjoy it, so this kind of thing determines that when I study, I can really take many shortcuts than them. Today's top scholars are all like this. Generally speaking, they are very good and powerful at home.
Knowledge may not change your destiny, but you can't change your destiny without knowledge. My parents are diplomats. How can I put it? I have created a very good family atmosphere since I was a child, including my study habits and the cultivation of my personality, which are all subtle, so I am the foundation of every step, and I play very steadily, so it will be natural in the end. "
Robert Putnam, the most influential political and social scholar in contemporary America, once said: "The solidification of social class is the starting point of unequal opportunities."
All roads lead to Rome, and some people were born in Rome.
You said you didn't have an equal background and didn't want to take part in the competition. No problem, competition will find you sooner or later, because you live in a society where the fittest survive.
Universities can generally study, but cities must be first-tier cities.
If you can't get into the famous universities in China, or you can't get into the good majors of these famous universities, give priority to the cities with developed domestic economy.
Universities can be ordinary, but the cities where universities are located are best first-tier cities, because there are the most cutting-edge information and the possibility of improving their horizons.
First of all, the first-tier cities in China, which we often say are north, Shanghai, wide and deep, overlap with the areas where the best universities are located. Of course, Shenzhen University is weak, and there are not many good universities in Guangzhou.
So try to choose the first-class universities in Beijing, Shanghai and its surrounding areas (that is, Nanjing and Hangzhou) and Guangzhou. There are many more opportunities in these places than in other parts of China.
Then, besides Ning Hang already mentioned, Wuhan, Chengdu, Xi and Harbin should also be considered in turn.
Big companies like BAT, foreign investment banks like Google, Microsoft and Goldman Sachs, and consulting companies like McKinsey and PricewaterhouseCoopers only recruit people in these cities.
When considering the advantages of these cities, the degree and absolute level of university gathering are also very important, because the recruitment of enterprises there is relatively low.
In other words, even if you graduate from other cities, even if you are excellent and have a good major, the possibility of directly entering these companies is almost zero.
In addition, try to choose coastal provinces with high GDP and corresponding provincial capitals and central cities.
For your future, the larger the economy, the more concentrated the enterprises, the more opportunities, and the more convenient it is to find a job interview.
If you can't get into the key university of Peking University in Tsinghua, choose a big city to finish college, even if it is almost, and then take root in this city. A good city may represent a class.
If you study in a big city, you will see more possibilities and find that many things can be done without restrictions.
You can get in touch with top people and even become a part of them;
You can participate in exhibitions and conferences all over the country and even around the world.
You can find a competitive job in Beishangguang, and the person you apply for may be someone who has returned from studying abroad;
You can talk about changing society and changing the world without feeling disobedient, because you can really do it;
No matter what you did before being laughed at by others as wishful thinking, there will be many people like you, smiling at each other and walking hand in hand;
You can have many possibilities that you can't even imagine studying in a small city. ...