Date: July 28th, 2020
Day 23 Study:
Today's point of view:
Confucius' trilogy of governing the country-enriching the country-education is in line with the law of social development. When the country is stable and the population increases, we must find ways to make the people rich and then educate them. This is because the increase of material wealth may induce more greed and uncertainty, and the "self" will expand and cause social problems. At this time, the most fundamental measure is to lead the broad masses of people to "cultivate themselves", which is the starting point of national governance. Thinking of our existing country with increasingly rich material wealth, this country is leading us to learn China culture and build national self-confidence.
The key to self-cultivation is to practice "benevolence", sincerely pursue and actively develop the inner treasure, and "benevolence" will certainly be displayed. This "benevolence" is great love. If you love someone, you can love the people around you and the world. A man of noble character will not be lonely, he has invisible charm. The essence of the relationship between husband and wife is the same-mutual support and mutual achievement.
Today's case sharing, I heard tears. After fighting with her husband for more than 20 years, the heroine finally reflected on her mistakes under the inspiration of the sage culture, so she showed respect and respect to her husband and got more love from him. My husband is also a soldier. After changing jobs, he has always been a training tone and posture, which I can't accept. I also realized that I had been proving myself. Behind the proof is a deep sense of insecurity, superiority, and actually a deeper sense of inferiority. I also apologize, but there is a reluctance and a grievance behind the apology, so I will still be angry. My husband chose to escape and leave, which made me even more angry and fell into a vicious circle. I can see the actions and reactions of behavior. Deeply repent!
Thank you very much and wish you all the best!