I want to realize my social value.
It is not easy for parents to support a girl. If your daughter only gives birth or takes care of children at home after marriage, why should she study for more than ten years? Some women not only read undergraduate courses, but also graduate students and even doctoral students. If they don't work, the meaning of learning doesn't exist. Women want to realize their social values and communicate with friends. They don't want to be housewives at all, and then reach out to their husbands for money and look after their faces. It is difficult to have a baby, and it will cause serious physical and mental torture. It is unthinkable to have a second child.
Rising housing prices and the cost of living make women afraid to have a second or third child.
It's easy to have children, but it's really difficult to raise them. Jiangsu's economy is relatively good, so housing prices are very high, and young people may not be able to buy one square meter a month. Having children can also raise them better, and let them go to interest classes. Even if you don't want to put pressure on your children, today's children will be compared together. If your child is poor and has not attended any interest classes, it will definitely make your child feel inferior. Coupled with the rising cost of living and various expenses, these highly educated women are reluctant to have children.
abstract
Girls study to be useful people, not housewives who take care of their children. And the social value of housewives has not been recognized, which is very tragic.