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The university feels lonely and always alone. What should I do?
In fact, many people always feel lonely after going to college. Before college, when we were in junior high school and senior high school, we usually went to school together. We eat together, go to school together and leave school together. Life is very regular. In fact, going to college is equivalent to stepping into society with half a foot. This kind of loneliness needs to be used to, just like being very lonely after entering society in the future. They are all lonely. Living alone, eating alone and working alone make it harder for colleagues to become friends. It's better to go to college, or at least live in a dormitory. Although the relationship with roommates may not be so harmonious, sometimes they may have a good relationship on the surface, but they will spit on each other behind them. And everyone has their own plans, different hobbies, and it is very likely that there will be a partner who can accompany you all the time.

Get used to loneliness, have a strong heart and enrich your life. We should make a good plan for our future, understand how to take our future road and work hard for the future.

Accustoming to loneliness is the beginning of self-cognition, which means starting to grow up independently. When I first went to college, I wanted company when I went shopping, went to the library and took interest classes. Later, I got used to these things. Actually, I can do it alone. Why do I need someone else to accompany me? I can go shopping alone, watch movies alone and go to the library alone. And when I do it alone, I don't have to consider other people's feelings. I can arrange my time very reasonably. This is also the beginning of my independence.

Learning to enjoy loneliness is the beginning for a person to become excellent. After going to college, I always want to escape loneliness and have a companion to accompany me all the time, but in fact, only by learning to accept loneliness can we become more mature. We need to enjoy loneliness, not let loneliness dominate us, so that our hearts will become stronger, we can listen to our hearts and understand our inner thoughts, and we can be ourselves and realize our dreams.