Song has been exposed to seaweed in his work, and Song has a good impression on seaweed. On the one hand, everyone loves beauty. On the other hand, seaweed is like a dream lover in Song University. Song, which has a certain resource status, has a psychological need to make up for the regrets of that year. When I was a child, I was too poor to eat meat. Adults often eat fat.
Step 2 communicate
The association between Song and Hai Zao was arranged by Chen Sifu, a public relations woman (paid X woman). It is just the beauty of female employees in exchange for the benefits of leaders (sometimes customers). Because the salary given by Chen is too low, he can only accompany the wine. Under normal circumstances, Song doesn't care too much, just put on pants and let Chen pay the bill. However, the seaweed in the film happened to be my dream lover when I was young, and Song was very keen on it. Trying to occupy seaweed to make up for psychological needs.
Step 3 have sex
The root cause comes from borrowing 60,000 yuan, and seaweed borrowed money from Song, who once expressed concern for Beckham. I'm ready for a physical transaction.
Song Shunshui pushed Zhou and borrowed wine to possess seaweed. The coincidence arranged in the book is the vacation of seaweed, which makes Song mistakenly think that it is the first time for seaweed. Thus triggering another dull pain in Song Siming. He is not his wife's first man. Another psychological emptiness has been made up.
In order to make up for the psychological emptiness in Song Dynasty for two years, seaweed became more different from ordinary public relations women. Fortunately, seaweed has become emotional.
4. deceptive
Seaweed is not a shy woman. The first time is a transaction, the second time is half-hearted, and the third time is a pleasant stimulus. There is no denying that Song is an attractive person in this society. He has power, status and money, and he can also give seaweed the capital to satisfy its desires.
For seaweed from a poor family, this is exactly what she needs. Beckham can't provide it, and they both get what they need. Seaweed's request for Song is 90 cents, but what it can give Song is his two regrets for many years.
Song's request has some psychological obstacles for seaweed (the woman who posted it won't even have such obstacles. ), but in the face of material interests, it has been lightly crossed. But what she got from Song was something that no one else could give.
Faced with this demand, if two people maintain a relationship, they will naturally have a long-term relationship. I have more sex and communication with X-girl, and X-girl often sends friendship shots. Two people naturally have feelings.
It is somewhat reluctant to regard this feeling as love.
Step 5 separate
The beginning of separation originated from Song's possessiveness. Song wants to enjoy the body and feelings of seaweed alone, instead of sharing it with the poor boy Beckham. So Song let Beckham know and let him leave.
However, seaweed attached importance to Beckham's feelings and left him temporarily (most women who posted it did not chase Beckham, but followed the trend of Song Siming).
Leaving is leaving, but the psychological needs that Song has met have been lost, and seaweed has also lost its material benefits. And seaweed can't get a whole-hearted feeling from Beckham. Two people miss each other.
Step 6 reconcile
After a crisis, there was a problem in the trust between seaweed and Beckham. Beckham tried to rebuild trust through marriage, but seaweed refused to listen to Pinghai. The outbreak of a short message is only the fuse, and the fundamental reason is the distrust between the two.
For seaweed, Beckham's departure is a relief. She lost Beckham's feelings, there is nothing to lose, and there is no psychological obstacle. With or without it, she will go to Song.
Song was saved, mainly because he felt guilty about seaweed, which was related to the misunderstanding of seaweed for the first time, and also to his intention to expose the relationship with seaweed and create a rift between seaweed and Beckham. He knew there would be cracks between seaweed and Beckham.
7, mistress life
For seaweed, Song can meet almost all her needs except that she can't accompany her every day. Song has to deal with family and lovers. Song is very tired, but the desire that Song can't vent at home can be vented on seaweed.
Spacious villas, luxurious furniture, a lot of money, young body, and even guilt for children. Plus childhood dream lover, virgin plot. Algae let Song vent a lot of repressed desires.
Seaweed actually has potential desires. She grew up with average financial conditions. Later, she came to a big city and yearned for the so-called "fashion". She also suppressed a lot of material desires (now many women who sympathize with seaweed are also in this economic situation). Beckham loves him but can't satisfy her. Song Siming has a crush on her, and she can show it.
8. Crisis
Strictly speaking, the crisis in Song Dynasty had nothing to do with corruption, but was a victim of power struggle. When you enter the officialdom, you have to face this risk. The higher the position, the greater the conflict of interest, and Song came prepared. Seaweed is involved, but it is only a deliberate arrangement of the film. In general, seaweed will not come to a good end.
Some people are abandoned when they get the breakup fee, or take their children to their old age alone, get material enjoyment and lose the happiness that many ordinary people can get.