I know my husband has a lot of social activities, and there are all kinds of people around him at ordinary times, but my husband has never done anything unusual since he got married, such as staying out all night and being mature and steady, so I have always been at ease.
Later, when I went home on holiday, my husband avoided answering the phone and was emotional. I am sensitive to professional problems. When I got back, I followed my husband and found that he had found a young woman.
After investigation, the woman is a female college student in an art school. She lives in the house bought by her husband, and they have been cheating on each other for years 1. I haven't confronted my husband yet, but I already have a lot of evidence. The child is still young, and I don't want a divorce yet. What should I do?
An emotional tutor in love birds replied: For her husband's infidelity, first of all, you should find out why her husband cheated. Secondly, you should know why San Xiao stayed with your husband, for love or money. Taking care of my husband in Canada, the three are separated, and the two have the best of both worlds.
I suggest you have a sincere communication with your husband. Husband and wife together 10 years, the passion of love can easily be replaced by the dullness of the family. Maybe you will ignore the concern for your husband in your daily life. You need to reflect on this, otherwise you won't wait until 1 year to find out that your husband is cheating.
Business men face very complicated characters, and temptations are everywhere. As you said, your husband is also very good, so there are many temptations, so it is not surprising that you are too relieved of him and lead you to ignore him. However, 10 years, including cheating for more than a year, your husband still treats you as always, never staying out all night, which shows that you, the child and the whole family are still more important in his mind, and it is not difficult to recover, just need you to reflect and admit your dereliction of duty; Express forgiveness and promise to increase investment in family and husband in the future; With the help of children, you need father's love and family harmony, then your husband will return to the family.
If the third aspect is for money, just let your husband see the true face of extramarital affairs, naturally stay away from it; If the mistress is devoted to the true feelings, I believe it is difficult for her husband to extricate himself. You only need to improve your MV (partner value) and increase your investment in her emotional value, then Xiaosan will be unable to resist your husband's neglect of her, blow up her popularity, make your husband tired of extramarital affairs and turn his mind to his family.