In fact, this is not a serious matter, nor does it involve the bottom line and principles, but this little friction still makes you feel uncomfortable and even tired. What should you do if you really disagree with your roommate?
1, adjust your mind. My roommate said something and did something, but you were uncomfortable. Actually, it's nothing, not necessarily to anyone. Learning to understand others, giving others the opportunity to make mistakes, is also a sublimation of yourself. No one is perfect. Our growing background, educational environment, connotation and personality characteristics are all different, and it is human nature to disagree. But if we can understand this, we can consider it from each other's point of view, tolerate each other and seek common ground while reserving differences! We have different personalities, but we all have to have a kind and tolerant heart!
2. Don't take advantage of petty gain. If you trust each other once or twice, you will be less willing to play with you. Don't treat your roommate as a fool, and don't lower yourself. It is a long-term way to get along with your roommate generously.
3. Respect each other's privacy When it comes to privacy, it must be some secrets that you don't want to disclose. If you ask your roommate something you don't want to tell you, it may be boring. On the basis of a good relationship, you can enlarge the limit appropriately, but everyone will have a bottom line.
4, don't worry about roommates borrowing money, don't have money disputes with roommates, even if it is a cup of soy milk. It takes longer to carry it clearly! Of course, it also excludes that you have no money to eat, and you can repay it by borrowing a little. You must also remember to return all the meals you usually borrow.
5. Keep it clean and tidy. Try to be a clean person in daily life, at least not because of personal influence's roommate. Too messy dormitory not only affects the bad living environment, but also has a certain impact on physical and mental health and mood. Don't let health problems become the fuse.
6. Don't speak ill of your roommate. Sometimes you can't stand what your roommate has done, but don't speak ill of ta, especially in front of other roommates. If you are not satisfied, have a dormitory meeting and have a chat in front of everyone. Just say something.
Some people say that the university is a small society, which is to describe this kind of social interaction. When we go to college, we will be separated from our parents. To start an independent life, you need to face the problems yourself and solve them yourself. During this period, you will meet a group of very important people in your life, that is, college roommates. Can get along well with roommates, can be as close as family, and even have a feeling that "lovers are not full above friendship"; If you don't get along well, you may just be familiar with strangers or even become enemies seriously, then how to get along with roommates becomes very important!