Having sex is not a casual thing, and there are no 100% contraceptive measures and measures to prevent the spread of infectious diseases. Condoms can only protect both sides to a great extent, of course, on the basis of correct use. Taking drugs is not good for your health.
Personally, I don't think it is necessary to consider premature sexual relations. Personally, I feel that when I have decided to go on with each other, I feel that I can do it at any time. The longing that has always existed in my heart will make two people feel different. If you decide not to do it first, you will let go of many distractions and thoughts in your heart, and your mind will be purer and purer, and you will not think about it. It should be a direct reflection of your body.
There is nothing you should or should not do. It is ok to be responsible for yourself after graduating from college, but it is not something you should or should not do. It's how you look at this problem in your heart. Outsiders' opinions and ideas will interfere with you, but your own thoughts are the most important. Think it over before you confirm it. Just follow your own thoughts.
Don't burden yourself with good things, and don't do them first if you have a burden. Still don't have regrets, don't let your future self regret it. As long as you are willing, think clearly and don't hurt yourself, that's all. Girls can have sex freely. Don't stick to the ideas of the older generation, just follow your heart. Remember to wear condoms.
It's really natural to have sex in an ambiguous atmosphere, and it happens skillfully when you love enough. Despite how uncomfortable and even guilty it was before, at that moment, two people who love each other enough and believe enough will realize the great integration of life driven by instinct and intimacy.