Fill the lonely type. It can be said that people who have this kind of love view often have no real love foundation at all, purely to alleviate their loneliness, fill the inner emptiness, and use the sensory stimulation close to the opposite sex to achieve the goal of having a partner and not being lonely. This kind of love view is extremely selfish, with the color of self-deception, and will only harm others and yourself in the end.
3. Vanity follows the crowd. Some college students, especially male college students, think that falling in love or being pursued by the opposite sex is ability, and vice versa. Driven by this vanity, some people make love to show that they are not worse than others. As a kind of purposeful love, this type of love view also exposes a kind of selfishness and naivety. They just regard love as a kind of ostentatious capital to go with the flow, which can only be called "promiscuity".
4. curry favor with the use type. This view of love is to build love on the social status and economic conditions of the other family or take the social status of parents and the superior conditions of the family as capital and wait for the price to be betrayed; Or from the future employment, promotion and other personal purposes, always use the shell of love to calculate the benefits from each other. It seems that the goal of love is not the object itself, but his family background. Such so-called love can never stand the test, and it is often difficult to have a good result.
5. Curious and early adopters. The beauty of love makes people yearn. Some college students are curious about love, because they have never talked about love and don't know what it is like. I hope to try it early. This view of love has a simple motive, but it lacks certain psychological preparation for love.
6. Blind passive type. Some college students do not have much psychological preparation for love. Although they have illusions about love, they are conservatively controlled by academic scruples, so they live the same life when no one is pursuing them and never show their love for the opposite sex. However, once someone attacks such people, they often passively accept sudden love. They don't know if they really need love, and they are blindly led by the nose in the contradiction between the usual conservative principle and the sexual happiness period in love. This kind of love means little. At best, it can only be regarded as a state in which people's feelings unconsciously show the need to be satisfied.