Student y is a versatile person. When he first entered the club, he didn't find anything different from others. After a period of contact, he found that this person is too scheming, always saying good things in front of the leaders, and secretly giving some members with bad relations a hard time. Y students only have a good relationship with the leaders, but not with all the members of our club. They don't help when discussing problems or doing things, they just give orders. I often give advice to the instructor in charge of our club on the development of the club. The teacher is a fool enough to like listening to his remarks.
In the end, when selecting outstanding club members, no one chose him, but the instructor thought that Y was trainable and finally gave him the index. What is still fresh in my memory is that when choosing the president of the club, both candidates actually quit halfway, and finally, Y became the president. As a result, it is conceivable that two vice presidents and many members have resigned from the group. Y is also very capable, bringing all his cronies and friends in, and they are all deputy ministers.
Y, a student, has performed his duties in the official commentary. This kind of person can't say that he is wrong, but that he is too pretentious to be intimate.
How to get along with college students;
First, face people better than you.
When you arrive at the university, you will find that there are too many "cows", and it doesn't take much effort to get good grades. There are special students whose sports competition level is comparable to that of professional athletes; Literary youth with high level of piano, chess, calligraphy and painting; There are handsome guys and beautiful women who are more handsome than you; There are friends, friends, and a lot of "social flowers".
Second, don't "answer blows with blows"
China culture has always had a way of teaching people to "answer blows with blows", such as "revenge by a gentleman is never too late" and "I won't commit crimes if people don't obey me; If people attack me, I will commit a crime. "
In fact, this way of doing things depends on the occasion. If it is a contradiction between the enemy and ourselves, it may be reasonable. But if it is used to deal with ordinary interpersonal relationships, I think this practice is very debatable.
When classmates get along, it is inevitable that there will be bumps and bumps. If we follow the way of "answer blows with blows", there may be a situation of "when is the revenge?" It will be difficult to get along well with classmates.
Third, don't choose to escape.
Some students feel that they can't get along with their classmates in the same dormitory, or they have met "wonderful" students. Their first thought is to escape. Some people want to change their dormitories, while others choose to rent their own houses. In fact, this is the least level way.
Can I get along well with my classmates in the new dormitory when I change dormitories? I don't think anyone can guarantee that if you don't get along well with your classmates in the new dormitory, you won't be able to change your face.
Moving out and renting a house is quiet, but what you lose is the opportunity to learn interpersonal skills and the friendship between classmates, which may also lead you to avoid things. It is impossible for people to survive in society without dealing with others. There are many great people in society. If you meet colleagues, superiors or customers you don't like very much after work, can you choose to escape?