First, college love, for some people, video learning, some people are afraid of pregnancy and so on.
Second, people in the university are immature and consider less other factors. Only considering love is not in line with the real society. Why is family condition one of the important conditions for mutual choice? A few years after you graduate and work, you will have a deep understanding. It's no use talking about it now.
Third, college students come from different places. For example, graduates who study in the northwest will return to the south. For example, my classmate thought that southern girls would stay in Lanzhou after graduation, but on the day when the girls left, they didn't answer the phone, and the man was crying on campus.
Fourth, the concept of love changes with age. Many boys in college simply have impure love motives and just want to have sex with girls. There are many such situations, and there are few college romances without sex. It is important for girls to protect themselves.
Five, college students are unemployed after graduation, because the increasing pressure of survival will change the fate of two people. For example, some people want to go to other cities to develop. Some want to stay in the local area, and some want to take the civil service exam. Finding a good job and buying a house will gradually change many people's ideas. Why do many girls have good conditions to graduate from jiehunjingji?
Of course, relevant students will work in monopoly industries after graduation.
6. Marriage is the combination of two families, and real marriage will face many problems. Including family background and family conditions. If a boy asks a girl out to take a taxi, the girl says the taxi is too dirty. I have my own Audi.
Seven, local customs are different, the man's family is responsible for buying a house, asking the woman to pay for the decoration of the house, and the woman's family can't get the money. What should I do?
There are many facts, and this is the case in the real society.
There are many other reasons. However, college love is also beneficial, which can make people mature faster, especially for emotional problems. 、
In a word, college love does more harm than good, but in fact, many college students are in love. As for how to choose, that's learning, let alone college students. Many 27-and 28-year-old married people regret not making a good choice. For the debate, don't completely deny the other party's point of view, but more forcefully explain that your point of view is more important or core.
There are too many examples, such as fighting for love, killing people, committing suicide, skipping classes for love, borrowing living expenses everywhere because of insufficient money, renting a house, taking medicine during pregnancy, causing massive bleeding and death, and so on. These are often reported in newspapers and the investigation is very detailed.