Finally, it succeeded. Chen and Luo Zijun divorced.
So, how did a middle-aged woman with children divorce Chen?
Chen and Luo Zijun don't have too many emotional problems.
Of course, after a long time, no problem is the biggest problem.
Luo Zijun is a full-time wife, and every day she thinks about how to keep this face from being eroded by years.
She cares about her life, which bag is new and which pair of shoes are new.
Luo Zijun paid little attention to whether Chen Shengjun was tired after working overtime, how hard he worked, how irregular his diet was and how healthy he was.
In this way, Lingling was given the opportunity to take the upper position.
When Luo Zijun didn't think of this at all, Lingling was caught off guard and took the opportunity to take the lead.
Lingling gives Chen warmth and care in life and helps Chen at work.
For a man whose wife never asks, this is undoubtedly incomparable tenderness and warmth in his heart.
However, when Lingling tentatively asked about the relationship between Chen and Luo Zijun, Chen prevaricated and didn't make up her mind to divorce Luo Zijun.
Lingling immediately expressed her meaning and said that it doesn't matter, don't affect their feelings because of herself.
Lingling also said that she would not embarrass him or blame him. She wants to like Chen and treat Chen Hao.
This trick is to retreat and advance, and to play hard to get is clever.
It not only expresses Lingling's feelings but also makes Chen feel distressed and guilty.
Here, Chen basically made a choice between Lingling and Luo Zijun.
Lingling knows Chen very well, understands his mind and understands him.
This understanding is enough to make Chen move.
At the same time, Lingling is also very familiar with Luo Zijun's state, which is why she is so considerate and humble before Chen.
Know yourself and yourself.
Say Luo Zijun face Lingling such people, of course, will lose. After all, even with Tang Jing's help, Tang Jing can only do limited things.
Chen may care more about the feelings.
If there were no Lingling, there might be someone else between Chen and Luo Zijun.
Because marriage is run by two people, families need to work together.
If only one person works hard, it will take a long time to walk.
I'm Dong Tan, and I'm glad to answer this question! Lingling was a middle-aged woman with children for the first half of her life, so a woman snatched Chen from Luo Zijun's room. What did she do?
Luo Zijun is a housewife, but she is not a qualified housewife. She only dresses herself all day, and the nanny does all the housework. She also loves spending money. She can buy a pair of shoes for thousands of dollars without blinking, making Chen look like a billionaire. Lingling is different. She has a child and is not well off. She hardly dresses herself. She works very hard. Chen, as her boss, was moved by her positive attitude. People always want what they lack more. Although their wives are beautiful, they have no ambition all day. They have nothing in common.
The meanest thing Lingling said was: "I blame myself, but I have to like you!" " "Chen is married. Should she say that? It's really disgusting! Sometimes when things are not going well at work, she will complain to Chen. Her heart is tender and her tears are first-class! And Luo Zijun, who always thought she had Chen firmly in her hand! So she usually does whatever she wants and says whatever she wants. She didn't know that her husband had begun to get tired of her from the heart.
Lingling's independence at work and weakness in front of men are the key to her success in hooking up with Chen!
"My First Half Life" Luo Zijun is very beautiful, very good at dressing up and very cute. Why did she lose to Lingling, who was inferior to her in all aspects?
Lingling, an ordinary "mistress", Luo Zijun once doubted the beauty around Chen. But he never doubted Lingling. She thinks that Chen may be attracted by a beautiful young girl, but she will never be attracted by a middle-aged woman who is not as good as him. She didn't regard Lingling as a competitor. But it is such a woman who took everything from her, which is incredible and incomprehensible. But everything seems destined to end.
Luo Zijun is a graduate student who graduated from a famous university. But she became a housewife. Luo Zijun cried when she divorced. Once you said that you would support me. But now you push me away for this reason. This is the sorrow of many women. It is also the sorrow of Luo Zijun. Did you do nothing? In the eyes of men, everything he has is given by men. His food, clothing, housing and transportation. What he did. It's all about family and men. In this way, he has actually lost his great charm. Later Luo Zijun. After finding a job, Chen repeatedly said that he had never seen it. The way he works hard. Very charming. In other words, at that time, in Chen's eyes, an independent woman like Zero Zero was attractive. And Luo Zijun. Just a woman who can spend money. In the original. Even Luo Zijun's daughter dislikes him.
When Luo Zijun first suspected the little girl around Chen and went to the company to make a scene, Chen didn't take this behavior as an act. Insecurity. I think Luo Zijun is fooling around. It is precisely because of Chen's high status. Let Luo Ziyun feel insecure. He'll think. Chen may be attracted to younger and more beautiful girls. Girls who appear beside him will become the object of suspicion. This is actually because Luo Zijun has no job and no focus in life. She put everything on Chen, without understanding, consideration and gentleness, just fooling around and pushing Chen out. Chen's struggle before divorce proved that Chen Ye was the victim of this relationship. He doesn't want to leave his family. However, I can't help falling in love with Lingling. No man doesn't like gentle girls, no man doesn't like considerate girls, and no man doesn't like attractive girls. And life in the killing. Luo Zijun became a housewife who only knew how to enjoy, didn't know how to pay, and didn't think about her husband. Even the housework is done by nanny Ya Qin, who is useless to the children.
In the play, Chen worked hard from a college graduate. Become a company executive with an annual salary of one million. After eight years of marriage, Luo Zijun is just a housewife, with stagnant thoughts and stagnant life. She only knows pleasure, can't keep up with her husband's pace, slowly falls behind, slowly fails to speak the same language, and slowly makes life lack of communication. This kind of life is like a stagnant pool, which makes Chen unable to see the passion and hope of life. Progress between husband and wife is very necessary and important. If one advances and the other stagnates, the final result can only be a breakup. As the saying goes, no one will wait for you in place. The life you choose is your own choice. You must pay for your choice. Since Luo Zijun chose pleasure, he should bear the consequences of such a choice.
Because Luo Zijun seems ignorant on the surface, in fact, it is because he has been out of society for too long. As a result, his cognition of some things has not developed forward, but has regressed. Therefore, Chen is unwilling to communicate with him at work. He has to bear the pressure and solve his troubles. When I am upset, I like to sit alone in the office until late at night. At this time, Chen is very lonely, and he hopes to get the understanding of his family. But when Chen's extramarital affair was discovered by the nanny at home, Luo Zijun was still in the dark. This shows that Luo Zijun knows nothing about Chen's ideological trends. They also lack the interaction and necessary communication between husband and wife. This is fatal in marriage. For Luo Zijun, he thinks that everything is smooth sailing in Chen, with no problems, no ideological fluctuations and no difficulties at work. For Chen, he felt that Luo Zijun didn't understand this, and it was useless to say it. As it turns out, they are all wrong and don't know each other very well. Know too little about each other's situation. If you know too little about things other than life, such feelings will go wrong sooner or later.
Because Luo Zijun can't understand himself, Chen can't give help at work and can't give support ideologically. Chen wants to seek the feeling of being understood and treated gently, and wants to get comfort and comfort when he is under great pressure. Even if the work is useless, you will be happy.
Lingling saw Chen working overtime in the office. Slowly began to care. Send her stomach medicine when Chen's stomach is uncomfortable, and send her the most intimate folder classification label when Chen's work is uncomfortable. She even accompanied Chen to work overtime intentionally or unintentionally to take care of her. So that Chen Jinsong thought began to waver. In the process of getting along with Chen, they hesitated whether to divorce. Lingling directly handled the divorce and took the lead in the direction of public opinion. Then, the game disappeared. Chen is looking for a madman. This game of playing hard to get is very practical in front of men.
There is a detail in the play. Once Jiaqing didn't finish his homework and wanted to play. Lingling taught him: If you want to live a better life, you should bear more and bear more today. In that case, you'd better finish your homework instead of playing. Jia supercilious nodded. In fact, this is also Lingling's attitude towards life. She racked her brains and made a lot of efforts to get Chen.
In front of Chen's parents. Compromise for perfection. Compromise before Chen. Always give Pinger's grandparents time alone. It was not until I enrolled my two children in an English summer camp that everyone saw her sincerity. At this point, Lingling has gained a foothold in the Chen family. She didn't need to pretend anymore, but exposed herself to treat the two children differently.
Finally, Lingling leaked the company's data. About framing Tang Jing. He Han resigned in order to protect Tang Jing. Take all the responsibility on yourself. Tang Jing has been thoroughly investigating the truth to protect He Hai. Luo Zijun wants to return the truth to everyone. Postpone the time to go to Shenzhen and continue to look for the truth. Everyone has paid a lot for the people they want to protect. And Lingling, the initiator. In the end, Chen didn't really get forgiveness. It can also be seen from here that Lingling is not as kind as Luo Zijun, nor does Luo Zijun know how to love. She got Chen because of the right time, location and people.
After reading My First Half Life, I always feel that Lingling can finally walk with Chen, not alone. Chen and Luo Zijun both have unshirkable responsibilities!
Let's talk about Chen first
Perhaps most men are like this, thinking that as long as they earn enough living expenses for a woman and make her worry-free, it is the best love for her. As for whether this woman will lack something that money can't buy, he will never consider it. If a woman doesn't ask him for something immaterial, he can't remember to give it. If one day a woman wants to ask him for them, it is this woman who is melodramatic, and he will start to think that this woman is not cute or worthy of love, and his eyes will. I will see some women who are better than my wife, which may be a chance for a man to change his mind, but when he is carried away by the novelty of other women, he will never think that this is the beginning of a marriage tragedy!
Let's talk about Luo Zijun's problem again
Luo Zijun's problem is that she loves Jun Chen so much that she regards him as her whole life. Once a woman loses herself in a man, she will be a housewife who has an emotional life and enjoys material things, but when she is alone, she will be in a passive state. Without this man's money, she lost the source of life and the direction of life, just because Chen said to Luo Zijun, "You don't have to work, I'll raise it."
Luo Zijun's love for Chen is too full, and her letter is too true. In Chen's eyes, she is just a housewife who will only give everything to enjoy material things. So when Lingling, who is independent, confident and capable, appears, Chen will look at Lingling step by step like discovering a new continent, which will eventually lead to divorce between husband and wife. Lingling successfully married Chen, but Luo Zijun lost her marriage!
This question is very simple. The following points can explain clearly how Lingling got Chen.
1, work. Work means that Chen and Lingling work in the same company. They often work together, project docking, and usually spend more time. So, this is the old saying: Love grows with time. When two people are together for a long time, they will have feelings. Often together, if one party is sick, he will take care of it in time. Luo Zijun knows how to dress himself every day. He only asks Chen for money and never cares about Chen. However, Luo Zijun's love for Chen is beyond doubt, but the way of love is wrong. So, where there is love that Chen wants, Lingling will naturally get Chen.
2, gentle. Why Chen doesn't want Luo Zijun, because Luo Zijun seems to be coquetry to Chen. In fact, this is a strong coquetry, which is not what Chen wants. When Lingling wanted Chen to give up Luo Zijun, she was sensible and moved, and successfully won Chen. Chen is with Luo Zijun. Luo Zijun is a bit headstrong and savage. To put it mildly, this is unreasonable. Moreover, the eldest miss is ill, which makes people feel out of reach and wants to go home every day. For a man with a career, there is no energy at all. On the contrary, Lingling's gentleness made Chen feel the warmth of home. Every day when she comes home, she has hot water to take a bath, and some people cook good food for herself. This kind of life is exactly what Chen wants. Plus, Lingling's tenderness, especially for Chen, is what men eat, so Lingling got Chen.
3. show weakness. Women know how to show weakness in front of men, especially in front of outsiders, which is a wise choice. Luo Zijun, after having Chen, has no respect for anyone at all. He is also a lofty face in front of Chen, which is not very good for a man and is not very acceptable. In front of Chen, Lingling is right. Chen will support whatever he wants to do. Therefore, it is also important for women to know how to show weakness.
4. purpose. Lingling's purpose is very clear. He just wants Chen. In a series of arrangements made by Chen for himself, he came to his side. This is her trick. Therefore, when Chen wants to divorce Luo Zijun, she is also concerned about Lingling. Chen just plays an actor.
A man and a woman are together, and there is no interest relationship between them, so you come and go.
Because of "understanding", Lingling successfully pursued Chen.
First of all, as a small leader, Chen is busy with his work every day. As his subordinate, Lingling always does things comprehensively, and every little detail is in place, just like taking notes. Chen is of course very pleased to see that he is so worried about his subordinates. Lingling always tries her best to do what she can in her work, so as not to let the leaders worry about trivial things. Chen likes this understanding very much.
Secondly, Chen's wife Luo Zijun is a full-time wife. The most familiar ones are high-end clothes and high-end skin care products. I don't understand Chen's hard work at all Luo Zijun, who is divorced from the professional society, only talks about fashion, which Chen doesn't understand. He hopes to talk with others about his work and that someone can understand his fatigue. Lingling did, and Chen liked it very much.
In addition, Lingling divorced Chen and her husband. It is difficult for me to go out with my children. Her ability and disappointment were understood and sympathized by Chen. Luo Zijun is very strong at home. Chen's position at home is average, and he is oppressed by leaders in the company. In front of Lingling, he felt the dignity and greatness of being a man. Lingling understood his sense of need and gave him a chance to show his manhood, so Chen liked it very much.
Also, Luo Zijun spends money without restraint, and relatives at home always ask her for money, which makes Chen under great pressure. Lingling understands his unspeakable complaints, never asks him for money, and helps him save money. This peaceful attitude and understanding makes Chen like it very much.
Many men like women who are especially worried. Lingling caught this. She understood Chen's disappointment, mastered it and broke through Chen's defense line bit by bit.
Do you think this statement is correct? Let's discuss it together.
To say that the most annoying role in the TV series "My First Half Life" is Lingling, who looks average, but is the most scheming. It is inevitable that Luo Zijun will lose to her. When I first met her, the glamorous Luo Zijun thought Lingling was dressed like an aunt and didn't put her on the dangerous list at all. And treat her as a good friend and praise her. When she came to her senses, she found that Lingling, who looked like a general, was actually a "king". She easily appeased her husband Chen and abandoned herself cruelly. In fact, this is the inevitable result. Luo Zijun has been a full-time wife at home for many years, and her personality is naive. She doesn't have to do anything every day and has no value of her own. Chen Ziran will be bored with such people every day. On the other hand, Lingling is different. They have the same language in the same company. Lingling pretends to be a good wife and mother and uses a gentle knife on Chen. Chen only eats this one. This is also the genius of Lingling. She knew Chen's needs and what she wanted, and caught Chen easily with a little skill. Throughout the whole process, I found that Lingling used three tricks to get Chen done. The first move is to retreat, the second move is to dress up as a pig and eat a tiger, and the third move is to be generous. In fact, on the whole, Lingling is really good at doing these things, and this gentle knife also makes Chen lose herself. In fact, divorce is also a good thing for Luo Zijun. Only after the divorce, Zijun achieved a better self, he will know that the true meaning of life is to rely on himself, and the fact is that Luo Zijun is better than chen more. Do you think so? Do you like the play? Welcome to share your views.
It's the details.
In The First Half of My Life, Luo Zijun began to be a housewife, and her clothes were so tight that she could not make ends meet. Although she said that she has devoted all her love to Chen and his family, Chen's income of several million yuan a year has some pressure on a certain post, some problems and some slight pressure at work, which Luo Zijun can't share after returning home.
Men want to meet a woman who can share some pressure for themselves. At this time, a woman who can understand herself and take care of herself because of stomach trouble will definitely be shaken. At that time, Luo Zijun was still stagnant, and with some careful machines of Lingling, Chen was sure that his heart would leave Luo Zijun and slowly drift towards Lingling.
Because she has a job, can help Chen, and is gentle and virtuous.
This question is actually very simple. Lingling is not as beautiful and fashionable as Zijun, and she has children. There are only two reasons why she succeeded.
First, the marriage between Luo Zijun and Chen seems calm, but it has long been calm. The gap between the two people is getting farther and farther. Luo Zijun can do nothing but spend money, like a canary in a cage, while Chen is not rich, but a migrant worker. He is under pressure. His pressure Luo Zijun didn't understand, and the two people's languages were getting less and less, which was not at the same level at all, which gave Xiao San an opportunity.
Second, Lingling attacks her scheming, does not fight for her profits, and is specially designed for the poor who retreat for progress. Chen is weak, has no opinion, and is easily pushed around. It's a pity that Lingling went too far after getting married and didn't pretend to go on. No matter how stupid a man is, he will not care about his own children, but will only raise others' children happily. If Lingling is a qualified stepmother, she is no worse than two children, and Chen may never regret it.