The first level: Newborns' sleep habits are always disrupted by staying up late. There is no difference between day and night. When they are born, they can sleep 20 times a day. They often wake up suddenly in the middle of the night and cry. Ma Bao also suffered. When the baby wakes up, he has to get up and manage, and his mental state is worse because he often stays up late.
The second level: cling to the baby and hold the newborn. In the process of breastfeeding, he has become accustomed to the smell of his mother. The smell of milk on his mother made him feel safe. In the long run, he will cry as soon as he leaves, and he will cry if he can't move his mother's skirt. His mother still has to carry him to the toilet, sleep and eat. At the end of the day, his mother always has a backache.
Level 3: Drinking milk ten times a day is not enough. The only source of nutrition for newborns is breast milk. Physical development accelerates the baby's metabolism, so it is always necessary for mothers to breastfeed. I have to feed it almost every time I wake up, worrying that the formula is not delicious. Therefore, in order to facilitate breastfeeding, mothers can only choose not to go out and breastfeed in public, which seriously limits their social interaction.
The fourth level: clothes and diapers cannot be changed. The defecation system and cranial nerves of newborns are not well developed and cannot be controlled by themselves. Mother often spits out milk to change clothes, and changes diapers when diapers are wet. The tasks around the children are busier than going to work every day. Dad can't do well, so everyone can only fall on his mother.
The fifth level: minor illnesses and disasters also scare the newborn's skin and organs are very fragile. On weekdays, mom and dad take care of them carefully, and changing diapers for their children is also afraid of hurting them. However, neonatal diseases are diverse. I don't know which day the child went to the hospital crying, and the mother who couldn't bear to watch the child take medicine and injections was also heartbroken.
As a father, I am raising children.
Aspect 1: put the baby to sleep
This is a job to test dad's patience. It is estimated that it is difficult for most dads to stick to the end, especially when the baby is 0-5 months old. At this stage, the baby and mother spend a long time together, and sleep has not yet formed a regular pattern. It's really a bit too difficult for dad that a mother can put her baby to sleep by nursing and soothing. But when the baby is about 1 year old, dad will come in handy. You can try various methods, such as reading and talking, trying to change your voice and expression while talking, or touching your baby's body while talking.
In short, putting a baby to sleep is a gradual process. Don't be discouraged if you don't do well at first, and get used to your work.
Two: Tell the baby not to cry.
This is the most troublesome thing. All methods have been tried, but the baby still can't be quiet. At this time, the father should learn to calmly analyze and find out the reason why the baby is crying, whether it is because he is hungry, hot or spoiled. In addition to the cause. Sometimes it is because the father is not often with the baby, and the baby is unfamiliar, so he will cry. Then you have to spend some time and thought to cultivate feelings with your baby. For example, you have to use something novel. You can also sing to your baby. He knows your voice, so if you hold him, he will feel safe.
Three: change the baby's diaper
I don't know what to do when I see the baby's shit, especially when the baby's poop is very thin. How should I change it for my baby? Too dirty? Is it difficult to wipe with a wet towel? These are all excuses. Mom will encounter such problems when dealing with it. Now think about how hard it is for her parents. So, since you are all fathers, this is what you should do.
You can simply wipe your baby's ass and then rinse it with running water. Pay attention to the stability of water, be sure to change it in time, and don't irritate his ass. Of course, it can also make the smell spread out as soon as possible, so as not to get stuck everywhere.
Four: give the baby a bath
Bathing is a very special moment for father and baby. If you want to wash with your baby, you should first prepare maternal and child products and baby bath products, and pay attention to "serving" whether taking a bath or a tub bath, because the baby will be slippery when it is wet. At the same time, it is necessary to avoid the baby drowning and taking a bath for too long. Dad can sing to the baby when he takes a shower, and the baby will be very happy.