The benefits of college students falling in love:
First of all, college love helps students to vent their emotions and balance their physical and mental development.
Before going to college, students' lives were almost filled with books and exams. Due to self-esteem and academic pressure, their feelings for the opposite sex are basically suppressed in a hazy and obscure state. But entering the university, the environment is much more relaxed than the freedom of middle school. There is plenty of time to be in a daze and bored, and there is no need for college students to vent their emotions and entrust their studies to them. In love, at least some people can talk to each other, pour out their hearts and spend the refractory period of being separated from their families, which is similar to the effect of "holding a group to keep warm".
Second, love exercises students' intelligence.
Emotional intelligence is exercised, because the process of love, from courtship to waiting, from establishing relationships to in-depth communication, needs proper choice, judgment and response, otherwise love will encounter setbacks or come to an abrupt end. Therefore, how to balance feelings and how to properly face emotions and skills is a problem that college students must face in love, and it is also a good opportunity to exercise EQ.
In addition, there will always be shyness and beauty in love, but after the relationship is established, the passion for love has retreated, and lovers have to consider the present reality, such as classes, exams, final exams, papers and so on. Some students may realize that since love fills the void outside school, it is beneficial to the smooth development of both parties in love to finish their studies hard.
Third, finally, love can make college students' personality more sound.
Love doesn't always have a happy ending, or the love experience with a happy ending will be bumpy. How to deal with lovelorn, or how to deal with the relationship between two parties in love, is something that everyone will experience. In the university stage, it is obviously beneficial to the formation and perfection of personality to experience some experiences in this field first. In American middle schools, schools encourage this kind of communication between boys and girls, with the aim of making them more mature and sophisticated in dealing with emotional relationships, able to bear injuries and enjoy happiness.
Of course, college students may also need a lot of guidance and correction in their love concept. Nowadays, college students are influenced by many factors and have many views on love. These different perceptions make many attitudes towards love deviate from the true nature of love. Moreover, in today's university campus, the phenomenon of academic neglect and putting the cart before the horse caused by love is also very common. How to guide and standardize college students' love norms and morality is what we should pay more attention to.