Although after entering the university, everyone is under the study pressure of adults, and the time is suddenly reduced, but it is more sufficient. At this time, parents no longer have to worry about their children's academic problems, but about their children's lifelong events and work problems in the future. Even some parents are urging their children to fall in love quickly, and it is ok to get married during college if appropriate.
In fact, before entering the university, many girls are very eager to talk about a love. However, after entering the university, I no longer expect this kind of vision.
Therefore, it is understandable that girls in love have more material needs, but as long as they encounter anything, they have to spend money on gifts, which makes many boys who have no direct financial resources simply unbearable. After all, everyone comes from an ordinary family. If you are in a relationship, you usually spend a lot of money.
2. The academic pressure in the university is relatively great.
Many people may not believe that the academic pressure of universities is relatively high, but now most college students are basically post-00, and their family conditions are better than those of the previous post-80 s and post-90 s, but they still face greater employment pressure.
At present, many college students have planned their future paths when they are freshmen, and more and more students choose to continue their graduate studies or take the civil service exam after graduation. However, no matter which way you choose, the academic pressure during college is also relatively large.
There is no teaching. With so much pressure, some boys may not have the energy to fall in love again. Even if they want to talk, they may be afraid of being sorry for the woman, so they simply choose not to talk.
3. In the future, the employment pressure is relatively high.
To tell the truth, college students are very independent, even more independent and thoughtful than many adults who have lived in society for many years.
Although college life is beautiful, after going to college, we have to face the problems of future employment and development. This is an unavoidable fact.
So many college students are just thinking about how to find a better job after graduation, or many college students don't want to fall in love until they find a suitable job, because this will affect or even disrupt their rhythm.