It is mainly a concrete analysis of specific situations and cannot be generalized.

In history, many people who went to college ended up with a college problem and lived with illiterate wives, such as Hu Shi and his wife.

However, others prevent their wives from marrying another person, or have never had the essence of marriage with an arranged wife who doesn't speak the same language. There are many such examples, such as Lu Xun and Yuan Pei.

Married in previous years, not falling in love. Whether they can be together or not depends entirely on whether the man is tolerant of the woman.

So, in today's society?

Going to college and not going to college, different living environments, will have different thinking patterns and world outlook values. This is the root of whether we can finally be together after going to college and not going to college.

There is such an example around me:

The boy didn't go to college in high school and then joined the army for two years, but these two years had a great influence on his life.

After graduation, he was assigned to our unit. He was originally a driver's class, but he worked hard and passed the network technology engineer after two years of self-study.

At the same time, in the process of learning, I got to know the fruit of girls who graduated from university computer.

The girl was moved by the boy's studious spirit, and in this way, they came together.

It can be seen that the key to the love of not going to college is not education.

I have also witnessed examples of going to college and not going to college, falling in love and not being together.

Boys and girls are all my junior high school classmates. Girls go to junior high school and then go to college, which is quite smooth.

But that boy graduated from high school without going to college, so he did business at home.

The girl became a junior high school teacher after graduating from college.

Teachers' values and world outlook are obviously inconsistent with those of businessmen.

In this way, they fell in love until they broke up, step by step, and I witnessed every step.

Therefore, people who don't go to college should strive to improve themselves, while those who go to college should pay more attention to each other's growth. Since we love each other, we should make progress together.

Only when two people keep pace and three views are consistent can they reach the other side.

Therefore, I wish the men and women who love each other who go to college and those who don't, work together and move towards the distant place of life.

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