A person's life is spent in meeting and parting. For example, during our school days, as we grow older, we will always make some good classmates in the process of further study. However, even if the relationship was good at that time, it was difficult to maintain a lifelong friendship. For example, students who have a good relationship in high school will gradually alienate themselves when they get to college. Then why?

Because the social circle is different, students who have very good relations in high school will gradually alienate when they arrive at university, so it is difficult for friendship to last long. In fact, the main reason is that after going to college, their social circles are different. After all, not all students with good relationships can be admitted to the same university and study the same major. Even in the same university, the contact circles of different majors are different, and the time is long.

I don't see each other often. Another reason is that when I was in high school, the relationship between the two people was good, because when I was in high school, they were in the same class and spent at least 10 hours every day. Because of the long time together, the friendship is often not very strong, so when I go to college, the friendship between the two people will fade. If you don't contact for a long time, even if you meet again, you will start to become strangers.

Because my outlook on life began to change, I also had a good girlfriend in high school. In high school, we were inseparable for three years. Even the parents at home know each other's existence, but even this friendship began to alienate gradually after college. There is a simple reason. After going to college, we gradually found that our outlook on life began to be different, and in the process of chatting, we also had many lovers.

After going to college, I always thought that after studying hard, I should find a good job and work hard for my career. I didn't expect to fall in love, get married and have children. These things seem far away to me. Another of my girlfriends thinks that girls should get married and have children around the age of 20, so the whole university is in a cycle of love and lovelorn.

After a long time, I found that I couldn't integrate into her life circle gradually, and she didn't understand why I did it. Later, after graduating from college, she successfully married her current husband, and I have always adhered to my own direction of struggle. Although I still keep in touch, I seldom speak my mind. After all, people with different outlook on life can only be ordinary friends or strangers, and never become bosom friends.