What are the common "hidden rules" of college students' associations?
I have just lived in a university for one year, and I am deeply touched by some so-called "hidden rules" of college students' associations. I don't know if other universities have these "hidden rules", but this situation is very serious in our school. I went to college last year. When I was in high school, I was very much looking forward to college life. At that time, I heard that there were various societies in universities, and life was very rich. I didn't know until I went to college that this was not the case. I feel that college student associations are like a small society, full of darkness and too many unfair phenomena. The seniors in the club ask you to do everything because they come a year earlier than you. Many things are not work-related, but their private affairs. For example, they will ask you to take delivery for them, copy notes, or help them with classes, and so on. The thought of you being a maid makes people angry! At first, I wanted to join many clubs. Later, for various reasons, I only joined the student union of our college and the fitness club of our school. Let's talk about this fitness club first. During military training, they recruited people and asked us to pay 20 yuan to join the club. At that time, they told us that there were two activities a week, and they took us to exercise together. I also said that only members of the health club can enter the gym to exercise. Later, I learned. As long as all the students in our school can exercise in it with their student ID cards, they never took us to class, so many of us were cheated of 20 yuan. Later, I heard about many other clubs in our school, such as badminton club, table tennis club and tennis club. Cheat money from freshmen every year. Now let's talk about our university student union. We college students want to survive in it, relying entirely on relationships. No matter how serious and excellent your work in the student union is, no one will give you a bird unless you have a good relationship with the secretary of the Youth League Committee. For example, our ministerial change this year has really brought the "hidden rules" to the extreme. In the department where the president of the student union once worked, almost all his members were arranged as ministers, and those old ministers who did not enter the chairman's chart were miserable. They worked hard for a year and were finally kicked out. It's really unfair. Although I succeeded in taking the upper position this year, I have no confidence to work hard in the next year. I don't think it's worth my effort or reward in this dark student union. I don't think anyone wants to work.