"14 bags of luggage need 10 volunteers to help him move. What's more, he even brought seven towels, enough toilet paper for four years. " Talking about the experience of picking up a "complete brother", volunteer Li Hu said helplessly. JUNG WOO, a freshman majoring in electronic information engineering at Wuhan University of Science and Technology, caused a sensation as soon as he entered the campus accompanied by five family members. Even his 83-year-old grandmother was in a wheelchair to help him. (Excerpted from Chongqing Evening News in September 12)
Such things often happen in today's society. College students have no ability to take care of themselves, and they have been used by their parents since childhood. They can't even wash clothes and have to accompany their parents to school. Nowadays, more and more adults have become "neets". They don't go to school, don't go to work, and do nothing all day. They obviously have the ability to take care of themselves, but they have to rely on their parents to support them. It is difficult for such people to gain a foothold in society, and it is very harmful to their future development.
Not long ago, the newspaper reported that Suo Yang, a 23-year-old boy from luoshan county, Henan, starved to death at home eight months ago. A villager who once helped him said, "Give him food, and he wants you to feed it directly into his mouth." Tracing back to the source, because parents were spoiled and lazy from childhood, they became "the first lazy person in the world" and eventually starved to death. (Excerpted from Dahe Daily on August 5)
I remember hearing a long time ago that a woman gave birth to a lazy child. Women love him so much that they won't let their children do anything. After a few years, the child grew up and became lazy, and his mother had to carry him when he walked. Just once, my mother was going out of town and needed to leave the child alone at home, so I made him a round cake and put a rope around his neck. I thought that lazy boy wouldn't starve to death. If he is hungry, lower his head and take a bite! After many days, my mother came back and saw the lazy child, starving. Just because the lazy boy is too lazy to even turn the pie around his neck, he only ate one pie in his mouth and didn't move the rest! But now this kind of thing is happening around us. Suo Yang has become a real version of "lazy boy" and a laughingstock of everyone.
Now, some students have become accustomed to the life of "clothes to reach out, food to mouth". I don't want to live and stand on my own feet through my own efforts. They were spoiled by their parents since childhood and developed the idea of relying on their parents. This kind of thought will not only make people lose the ability and spirit of independent life, but also make people lack the sense of responsibility for life and cause personality defects. If you just want to get something for nothing and enjoy it, you will not be able to adapt to social life, and even endanger family society or others and embark on the road of illegal crimes. Therefore, we must change the current practice and change the concept of "little emperor" and "little princess" from now on!
In Wenchuan 5? 12 earthquake, we once found a little Lin Hao. During the earthquake, he was crushed under the rubble with other students. But Lin Hao was not afraid, and organized students to sing to boost morale. After two hours of struggle, Lin Hao, who is short and flexible, finally climbed out of the ruins. But at this time dozens of students in the class were buried under the rubble. Lin Hao didn't panic and flee, but went into the ruins again to carry out rescue. Later, Lin Hao took two students out of the ruins and handed them over to the principal.
Our teenagers don't need to take care of themselves and others in the earthquake like Kobayashi. But we should at least get rid of the baby, bid farewell to dependence, move towards self-reliance and live independently, don't give up when encountering difficulties, and persist in solving them by ourselves. People must learn to be independent in adversity before they can grow up. If you wait until you go to college, it will be difficult for your parents to take care of you. It is too late to wake up at this time.
In our present life, self-reliance is also very simple. You just need to help your parents do housework, wash clothes and cook. Finish your homework on time, and don't let your parents coach and worry about your study; Do your duty in the class and let the teachers and classmates give you a thumbs up; Arrange your study life well, and you don't need your parents to accompany you when you travel. ...
"The blade comes from sharpening, and the plum blossom is bitter and cold." Let's keep this sentence in mind and forge ahead on the road to success with an independent heart and courage to overcome difficulties!