Ju Ping smiled and said without hesitation:
The title of "Sister Ju Ping" runs through Ju Ping's life.
She has accompanied the growth of generations of children.
She is the pioneer and leader of China children's host.
At that time, her words were even more useful than her mother's.
But there are tears behind the scenery.
Sister Ju Ping, who accompanied countless audiences, was lonely when her son grew up.
She married her ex-husband because of love and divorced because of life.
The attitude of the other party broke her heart. After the divorce, she raised her son alone for many years.
She always leaves the joy to the audience, but swallows the tears back to her heart.
It was not until her remarried husband appeared that she regained her confidence and yearning for love.
0 1
1966, Ju Ping was born in Beijing, the second child in the family, with an eight-year-old brother on it.
Ju Ping grew up under the care of his parents and brother.
As a child, she was lovely and lively, and soon showed unusual artistic talent.
Before he knew what acting was, Ju Ping had learned to imitate himself.
She likes to observe the guests who come to her house and imitate them perfectly.
But at that time, her biggest dream was actually to become a ballet dancer.
The dancer who stood on tiptoe and danced "The Red Female Soldier" left a great shock in her young mind.
She pulled up the mosquito net as a curtain, used the bed under her feet as a stage, and dreamed of beautiful dancing until she couldn't jump.
Mom saw that she was so obsessed with ballet that she took her to dance school. When the teacher saw her, she shook her head and denied it.
"The face is too round, and the legs are not long enough or straight enough."
Her ballet dream was thus shattered.
But when heaven closes a door, it opens a window.
Ju Ping, who had never studied dance, entered the china national radio Youth Radio Choir with a good voice and became classmates with Cai Guoqing, Hang Tianqi and others.
Here, besides singing, Ju Ping has a new hobby.
Piano.
She was deeply attracted by black and white keys's graceful movements.
But the piano, an exotic instrument,
Even now, it is not affordable for ordinary families.
What's more, in those days.
Ju Ping had no choice but to draw the keys on the desk, remembering what the teacher had taught, and imitating singing while playing.
Such a happy day is like running water, and I graduated from junior high school in a blink of an eye.
Many students chose to go to high school, such as Ju Ping's brother.
But Ju Ping obviously has his own ideas.
198 1, she was admitted to Beijing Kindergarten Normal School and determined to stand in the seven-foot lecture hall in the future.
With many years of experience in chorus, Ju Ping is familiar with vocal music lessons.
During an exercise, the teacher who accompanied me was temporarily ill and could not find a suitable person to play the piano.
Ju Ping's side stood out and volunteered boldly, which shocked everyone around him.
1983, Ju Ping went to CCTV for video recording with the choir.
Tall and sweet-looking, he was immediately valued by the director of CCTV Children's Department.
At that time, there was no full-time host in the children's department, and each program was temporarily extracted from kindergarten teachers.
So after seeing Ju Ping with good temperament and image, the director moved his mind.
Ju Ping, who received the audition notice, felt a little unreal.
She is neither a famous university student nor a broadcasting major student.
On the day of the audition, she wore ordinary clothes and no makeup, singing, dancing and telling stories as usual.
It was her true colors that moved the leaders of the children's department.
But Ju Ping was very upset. She asked the director in charge of the children's department if she had never studied broadcasting.
The other party told her a positive answer, as long as you are patient, childlike and caring.
And these are exactly what Ju Ping needs most.
So in the summer of 1984, 18-year-old Ju Ping first appeared on CCTV Children's Channel.
She borrowed a fashionable blue skirt from a well-connected music teacher, put on a plastic wreath made by herself, and became a kind "Sister Juping" for the children.
Because of his excellent performance, Ju Ping met the national audience with a jigsaw puzzle on Children's Day the following year.
Her kind, gentle, natural and lively hosting style was unanimously welcomed by the audience.
Once "Tangram" was broadcast, its popularity remained high.
The average audience rating is over 10%, with a maximum of 36%. Countless people stood in front of the TV just to see Sister Ju Ping.
At that time, communication technology was not developed enough, and people mainly expressed their inner feelings by writing letters.
Ju Ping can receive more than 6000 letters a year.
There are different notes in the letter, some for adults and some for children.
Children's naive words and immature notes filled Ju Ping's heart with motivation.
She likes to get along with children.
She will not only write back in person, but also keep these envelopes as precious memories.
These envelopes will convey not only the children's love for her, but also their opinions sometimes.
At that time, people around Ju Ping followed the fashion and had beautiful curly hair.
Ju Ping has also caught up with the trend.
But for her new look, children can't accept it.
The sincere words of the children deeply touched Ju Ping's heart.
She took her hair back without saying a word, and it never changed in the next few decades.
02
At that time, Ju Ping was a well-deserved celebrity.
1988, the first TV host contest, 22-year-old Ju Ping won the championship with absolute advantage.
1989, 23-year-old Ju Ping stood on the stage of CCTV Spring Festival Evening and made a stunning appearance as the host of the Spring Festival Evening.
Recalling the past, Ju Ping regrets ground say:
This is true in career and in love.
In the process of buying shoes, Ju Ping met her first husband, Jiang Qixing.
At that time, Ju Ping was taking part in activities offline and needed different shoes.
But I haven't found the right one after walking around the shoe store for a long time.
Helpless, she just shook her head and left.
I thought this little thing would turn over soon.
Unexpectedly, a few days later, she suddenly received a parcel containing more than 20 pairs of shoes of different shapes.
Ju Ping was stunned at once.
She took this pair of shoes and asked around, only after asking many questions did she know that they were sent by the owner of the shoe store.
At that time, in the shoe store, Jiang Qixing saw the sweet and lovely Ju Ping at a glance.
After seeing that she couldn't find the right shoes,
Jiang Qixing asked the clerk about Ju Ping's requirements in detail and asked the factory to make more than 20 pairs of shoes overnight.
After learning the cause and effect, Ju Ping was very grateful.
But Jiang Qixing refused to take Ju Ping's money, so Ju Ping had to treat him to a meal.
The two chatted very well at dinner, and after a while they talked about love.
In those days, there were numerous suitors and many talented young people in Ju Ping.
No one expected that ordinary-looking Jiang Qixing could really catch up with Ju Ping.
The status of two people is very different.
One is a beautiful woman who is famous all over the country.
One is a small shoe store owner with no bright spots.
Few people speak highly of their relationship.
But Ju Ping recognized Jiang Qixing in his heart.
She doesn't care about each other's looks, status and power. She only loves each other.
In the process of getting along, Jiang Qixing's carefulness and propriety moved her very much.
As long as two people love each other, nothing else is a problem.
1992, Ju Ping and Jiang Qixing entered the marriage hall.
After a year of marriage, Ju Ping gave birth to her son Yiyao Jiang.
The name was given to Ju Ping by comedian Liang Zuo, which means that he can fly farther and higher.
But she didn't expect that the child didn't become a bond between husband and wife, but let each other's feelings break down.
After having children, Ju Ping paid more attention to his family.
But when feelings meet life, there is always a chicken feather.
Jiang Qixing's masculinity is very heavy. He thinks that Ju Ping, as a wife, should pay for this family.
After marriage, I became a cutting shopkeeper, and my life depended on Juping.
At home, he crossed his legs and sat on the sofa, directing Ju Ping to wipe the floor with a rag.
He didn't help at all, and he still said that there was no cleaning here and there.
Even Ju Ping's colleagues were furious.
Ju Ping accepted.
In addition, Jiang Qixing is also pushing Juping to take care of the children.
Sometimes when Juping is cooking, the child cries. She asked Jiang Qixing to see the child, but the child's crying never stopped.
Ju Ping hurried over, only to find that Jiang Qixing just sat there and let his son cry until he burped.
Looking at his son whose eyes and nose were dyed red with tears, Ju Ping couldn't help getting angry. She asked her husband why he didn't look after the children.
Jiang Qixing looked dismissive. "How can you be so effeminate? If you cry enough, don't cry. "
For the sake of his son, Ju Ping silently endured these sufferings.
She didn't want her son to have an incomplete home, but her concession made her husband push his luck more and more.
As his wife became more and more famous, Jiang Qixing's anger became stronger and stronger.
Hearing the words "Ju Ping's husband", he felt extremely uncomfortable.
He took it out on Ju Ping.
Cold violence at home, yelling at Juping, is not a good look.
See Ju Ping into self-doubt, he just cold hum all his life, indifferent.
The once loving couple has unconsciously become a pair of bitter couples.
Instead of looking bored, let the other person go.
1999, Ju Ping chose to divorce.
In order to win custody of her son, she finally chose innocence.
Started a single-parent life with her 6-year-old son.
03
In Ju Ping's heart, he has always been full of debt to his son.
She has accompanied the growth of generation after generation.
From jigsaw puzzles to windmills,
Every June 1 day, she sends her deep blessings to the children all over the country on time.
But for the sake of her son, she never spent a Children's Day with him.
When Yiyao Jiang was 8 years old, Ju Ping took him to the Friends program hosted by Wang Gang.
Wang Gang asked Yiyao Jiang with a microphone what he wanted most for Children's Day.
Yiyao Jiang replied, "I want my mother to play with me."
But this wish has never come true.
Life as a single mother is not easy.
She never takes those negative emotions out on her son.
When she is too busy, she will ask her parents to help look after the children.
When his son was at school, Ju Ping didn't make a decision without authorization. But to discuss with my son whether he can live on campus. She told her son the benefits of collective life and left the decision to him.
Wise Yiyao Jiang chose to live on campus.
But this did not affect the feelings between mother and son.
Every time Yiyao Jiang has a holiday, Ju Ping will prepare his son's favorite meals early and wait for him to come back at home.
Even the mother-child relationship is deeper.
Ju Ping fully respects his son's wishes.
As Yiyao Jiang grew up day by day, he began to like many things.
Whether playing the piano or learning the guitar,
Ju Ping always satisfies him unconditionally.
It is not only a debt to my son, but also a compensation for myself.
Every parent wants to put the best in front of their children, and Ju Ping is no exception.
Children's hobbies are always changing.
A hobby you like today may be abandoned tomorrow.
Ju Ping did not interfere with Yiyao Jiang's behavior of "fishing for three days and drying the net for two days".
In her opinion, the healthy growth of her son is stronger than anything else.
Ju Ping has its own set of rules in raising children.
She never discourages children's confidence, but advocates encouraging education.
She won't force her son to take extra-curricular remedial classes.
She doesn't care even if her son doesn't have a good specialty. "If you don't learn, you won't learn."
She will only tell her son,
"You did a good job, but if I were you, I would do better."
Under her education, Yiyao Jiang grew up very well.
He gradually understood his mother's difficulties, and the more he understood, the more he felt sorry for his mother.
Every time he comes home from vacation, he will help his mother clean up the housework with great difficulty.
There are always endless words between mother and son.
She never interferes with her son, but she is willing to listen to all the troubles for him.
Although the life of mother and son is very warm.
But Ju Ping's relatives and friends are very distressed about her life.
Being a father and a mother has brought up a son and is unwilling to try new feelings. Why should she be trapped in a failed marriage when she is still so young?
But Ju Ping has been worried that his son will be affected.
Her kindness to others is just lip service, but in fact it is procrastination.
However, as Yiyao Jiang grows up, he also hopes that his mother can reap her happiness.
Finally, urged by the people around him, Ju Ping promised to give it a try.
In 2009, under the guidance of an introducer, Ju Ping met Shuoyang.
This Shuoyang is not an actor Shuoyang, but a businessman with his own career.
They hit it off as soon as they met, and they both liked each other.
But Ju Ping always had doubts.
She has a failed marriage and a child.
This made her feel insecure.
But Shuoyang doesn't care at all.
"Don't worry, I will be good to you and good to your son."
Facing Shuo Yang's sincere words, Ju Ping decided to give each other a chance.
Shuoyang did not live up to each other's expectations.
He not only cared for Ju Ping, but also cared for Yiyao Jiang.
When Yiyao Jiang comes back from school, he will specially invite them to have dinner together.
At the dinner table, he would ask Yiyao Jiang's hobbies carefully.
It is said that whether you love someone or not can be seen from his actions.
Yang clumsily please her behavior, Ju Ping see in the eye, in mind.
Yiyao Jiang also gradually recognized his father.
On 20 10, Ju Ping and Shuoyang got the license in Beijing and got married formally.
After marriage, Shuo Yang really took Yiyao Jiang as his own child.
At that time, Yiyao Jiang had just graduated and chose his major. Faced with the great choice in life, he inevitably got into trouble.
Ju Ping can't give him more help.
At this time, Shuo Yang played the role of father.
After specifically understanding Yiyao Jiang's thoughts, he put forward different suggestions.
He suggested that Yiyao Jiang choose finance as his major.
After studying in Yiyao Jiang, I also made a lot of efforts.
04
When I was studying in Yiyao Jiang, a great event happened.
Ju Ping's father died suddenly.
When I was a child, my family was in poor condition. My father has always sheltered this family like a mountain.
But "the son wants to raise and not kiss",
Before his death, my father kept thinking that a hotel management manual had not been published.
This is the first time that Ju Ping has used her fame. She asked the printing house to print this manual.
It took a week to put the manual in front of my father's bed.
But Ju Ping didn't personally send his father away.
On the night of her father's death, she was recording a program in Yunnan.
After receiving the news, the sky in her heart suddenly collapsed by half.
This incident became an unforgettable pain in her heart.
Ju Ping, immersed in grief, could not recover for a long time.
She often forgets to eat, sits alone, and sometimes tears fall down her cheeks unconsciously.
Looking at her thin body, Shuo Yang's heart is also very painful.
He always accompanied Ju Ping carefully, reminding her to eat and taking her out to play.
He will also call his stepson quietly, hoping that his stepson can comfort Ju Ping's broken heart.
Under his meticulous care, Ju Ping came out slowly.
Three years later, Yiyao Jiang came back from school.
As his son grew up, he became the pillar of the family.
Ju Ping has begun to take a back seat.
With more time, her biggest headache is her son's marriage.
But Yiyao Jiang gets away with it every time.
At this time, Shuo Yang will also help to settle things.
Although life is inevitable, the life of a family of three is still stable and happy.
Emotional things should not be rushed,
Just like Ju Ping running around and meeting Shuoyang,
Maybe Yiyao Jiang's happiness will come.
Finally, I wish Sister Juping happiness all the time!